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I have a serious problem
| Fri, 11-28-2003 - 2:45pm |
Hello. I have a serious problem. I'm 27 years old and I have 2 kids. I had my second child by ceserean (she's almost 2) and since I had her, sex has been harder for me. I feel like my body is just so damaged. It just feels like I'm so weak. Well I just starting dating someone and we finally had sex for the first time after dating for a month. While we were having sex, I suddenly felt this pressure and the next thing I knew I had a bowel movement. Not enough that he noticed (it was like a leakage) but I knew it and I immediatley got up and attempted to clean him up. (I want you to know how embarrassing this is for me and I apologize if this grosses anyone out but I'm so upset right now and I need all the advice I can get). I managed to escape the embarrassment by telling him that it was blood. Well, we had sex again and it happened again. And again. I think he knows and understands how mortifying this is for me so he just excepts that I don't want to talk about it and he keeps referring to it as blood. He has offered to pay for me to go see a doctor but I'm so scared to even have sex with him again. I can't even enjoy it anymore. Plus, I'm a very petite woman 5'4" 110lbs and he is 6'4" 205lbs. I don't know if that has anything to do with it. I am going to go see the doctor but in the meantime can anyone tell me, have you ever heard of this?? Has this ever happened to anyone? It's so awful for me. I just started dating this guy and every time we have sex, this happens. It so mortifying. Please help me.

hey there and welcome to the board!
Do see a doctor about this.