Insecure about labia size????
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Insecure about labia size????
| Tue, 01-20-2004 - 10:07am |
I was a little girl (5 or 6 yrs) when I was told by a young friend that I didn't look normal "down there." At such a young age, I didn't know what 'normal' was. I have gone through life now always thinking that I AM indeed abnormal. It has kept me from being promiscuous (a good thing) but It has also made me very intimidated with my husband and very insecure about my womanhood. ( I am now 27 years old). What does a normal labia look like. I have heard of women who have a hard time riding a bicycle because it hurts their labia. I have not experienced that. I have not had any problems with it 'getting in the way. Does anyone out there feel like they are not normal because of a large labia??????

I have to wonder how that little girl "knew" what was "normal" when she told you you weren't? She was 5 or 6...what did she know? Did she have a whole lot of experience looking at other little girls down there? I bet she was just comparing you to her own.....and how do you know that SHE wasn't the one "not normal"....maybe you were the one that was normal and she wasn't, but she just hadn't seen anyone else to compare to...ever thought of THAT? I think you should let it go.
Anyway, I would say, whether they really are long or not, it really doesn't matter. Just as penis size doesn't matter with someone you love, neither should labia size....and I bet your DH loves you just the way you are. WOuld you love your DH any less if he was 4 inches or 10 inches? Or would you love him because of who he is? Why don't you let HIM be the judge...how does he react to them? Maybe you should give yourself a little therapy and let him explore and do a little worshipping down there....that might just change your attitude. And who's to say "normal" is better? Maybe "not normal" could be a whole lot more exciting. Maybe being a little different makes you special, with exta qualities that some of the rest of us might envy? Maybe extra long can be extra sensuous with extra tissue to tease DH with. You're a beautiful and sexy woman however you are made. Don't let the stupid and completely ignorant comments of a little girl shape how you view yourself!!!!
I too have large or long labia, and other than the tight jeans situation never had any probs either.
Time to let it go. :)