whats going on???? :(
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| Mon, 05-05-2008 - 12:35pm |
Hi all I could use some help. I know the best place is with a Dr. but I am just trying to figure out if anyone has any ideas or suggestions or if anyone has had a similar problem. Sorry if this is extra long im so worried :(
I have been with my bf for over 5 years and have been faithful to him but for the last few years almost everytime we have sex I bleed ..sometimes during and after .. sometimes its just for a few hours after the session but lately i will continue to bleed for a few days after .. its not heavy but enough for me to wear about a pad. I had my annual exam about 3 months ago and everything was fine and even though I was on birth control it still happened after sex with him. We had been trying to have a baby before so didnt use protection but because of the weird bleeding I got back on birth control to see if it was a problem with me.. and even though the birth control regulated my periods I still had slight bleeding when we would have sex.
Recently we split up and I was with my ex just one night .. we used protection and i didnt have any problems with bleeding not even a drop after we were done!
Now my bf and I have been trying to work things out so LAST NIGHT I went over and we had sex no protection and he ejaculated in me .. right after when I went to the bathroom I had started bleeding .. I am still bleeding right now its not heavy but there is some clotting and some brown discharge/ dark blood? I dont know but that freaked me out totally .. am I allergic to his semen or is there something wrong with me or him .. I didnt have any bleeding at all when I was with my ex and he has a bigger penis and reaches deeper in me than my bf .. so I dont know what my bf could be doing to make me bleed so much .. Im just putting 2 and 2 together now because I was recently with someone else but before when it happened i didnt even think it was related to the sex I just thought I was emotional or having some problems with spotting but after being with my ex and not having any bleeding I am really thinking it could be something with my BF .. HELP please .. I dont want to upset him or tell him hes got a problem if he doesnt so I havent talked to him about it but he is aware of my bleeding in the past . Anyone have any suggestion or been through something similar .. im scared :(
I didnt talk to my Dr about it being sex related because I didnt know it at the time and still dont but I am guessing it is .. my Dr told me its not too serious and it doesnt seem like there is anything wrong down there and that it could be emotional stress spotting etc when I spoke with her about the bleeding a few times but I dont think it is and I want it to stop!!!!! I have scheduled an appointment to see her but its not for awhile and I just need to know whats going on! PLEASE HELP!!!!

Hi msyaya3 and welcome to the board.
I'm glad you have made an appointment with your doctor.
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