PLEASE HELP ME......I'M SCARED!!
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| Mon, 06-02-2008 - 12:54am |
HELLO MY NAME IS TONYA, MY BEST FRIEND WAS RECENTLY DIAGNOSED WITH HPV (ABOUT ONE MONTH AGO). WE ARE BOTH 28......PRIOR TO BEING DIAGNOSED, SHE WOULD BLEED PRIOR HER SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS. OKAY, IF IT SEEMS LIKE I'M ALL OVER THE PLACE IT'S ONLY CAUSE I'M SCARED....PLEASE BE PATIENT. OKAY, SO LAST WEEK SHE HAD SEX AND NO BLEEDING FOLLOWED.....WELL SHE WAS JUST AS HAPPY AS EVER, BUT I STILL FELT LIKE THAT DOESN'T MEAN ALL IS WELL(OFCOURSE I DIDN'T SAY THAT,,,,BUT I THOUGHT IT). NOW, ON TUESDAY.......SHE IS SCHEDULED FOR HER COLOSCOPY. I AM GOING WITH HER. I WANT TO BE THAT "OPTIMISTIC- BY HER SIDE FRIEND" AND I WANT TO BE SINCERE.......BUT I'M SO SCARED I'M NOT FEELING "PEACHY KEEN." OH NOT TOO MENTION, SHE RECENTLY ASKED HER DOCTOR FOR SOME BLADDER CONTROL MEDICINE DUE TO HER VERY FREQUENT URINATION.....IT'S ONLY BEEN ABOUT ONE MONTH......BECAUSE SHE FELT IT WASN'T WORKING TAKING ONE A DAY.......MISS THANG TOOK IT UPON HERSELF TO TAKE 3.........I'M SO UPSET......BUT I DON'T WANT TO PUSH HER AWAY......I LOVE HER DEARLY. IF ANYONE HAS ANY ADVICE THAT COULD HELP ME (WHETHER IT'S SUGAR COATED OR THE BLUNT TRUTH).....PLEASE LAY IT ON ME AS LONG AS IT'S TRUE LIFE EXPERIENCE. I WANT TO THANK YOU IN ADVANCE.
SOME OF MY MAJOR CONCERNS ARE WHAT STRANDS OF HPV.....
WOULD A HYSTERECTOMY BE OF MANDATION.....
WHAT MIGHT MY BEST FRIEND BE FEELING FROM NOW TILL TUESDAY

Hi Tonya,
It is wonderful that you want to be supportive for your friend.
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THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!! I POSTED THAT SEVERAL DAYS AGO. SHE HAD THE COLPSCOPY DONE TODAY, HER DOCTOR TOLD HER THAT HE DIDN'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG, HE TOLD HER THAT HER HPV IS BARELY DETECTABLE. HE TOLD HER HE WAS RUNNING SOME TEST AND SHE'LL HAVE TO WAIT ONE WEEK FOR THE RESULTS. HONESTLY, I HOPE THAT ALL REALLY IS WELL!!! I FEEL SOME KIND OF WAY:(....IF THE COLPSCOPY WAS THE DOCTORS WAY OF TAKING AN IN DEPTH LOOK, WHAT'S THE NEED FOR MORE TEST........I CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW IGNORANT I MUST SOUND TO YOU.....BARE WITH ME...LOL!! SERIOUSLY, WHAT ARE THE CHANCES OF SOMETHING BEING WRONG CONSIDERING HE "TOLD" HER
THE STRAN OF HPV IS LOW TO BARELY DETECTABLE
HE DIDN'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG VIA THE colposcope
I AM IN ROUTE TO THE READINGS AND SITES YOU HAVE SUGGESTED TO ME.....THANK YOU SO MUCH, BECAUSE OF YOU I CAN BE A BETTER FRIEND....I WILL KEEP YOU POSTED!!!~TONYA~