so tired of everyone's response to this.

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Registered: 01-31-2005
so tired of everyone's response to this.
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Sat, 03-10-2007 - 1:32pm
all my friends and family are like "im sorry" and thats IT. they act like i have the flu..just cause its cureable does not mean it doest impact me at all...

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Sat, 03-10-2007 - 2:37pm

Yep.

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Registered: 01-31-2005
Sat, 03-10-2007 - 3:35pm
i know life is semi on hold for me b/c of this..making new arrangements..i even expressed these feelings to my family and they were like
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Sat, 03-10-2007 - 4:11pm

U don't have to quit the pity party bcz feeling sorry is part of acceptance.

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Registered: 01-31-2005
Sat, 03-10-2007 - 4:37pm

yes i have been keepig up with you, i have found it to be better to read and lurk than write one of those superficia posts cause honestly i dont know what your'e going througha lthough I am empathizing in my mind and heart....i am a very empathetic person which is why its hard for me to realize that others dont feel that way towards me...


i am wishing you luck on your tumor and will not use the "im sorry it'll be okay" but rather we're here for you and really wish this board would pick up some more and we could get to know eachother on a more personal level than just our cancers.


im 22. im too young to have cancer. yes i want my family to cry over it with and for me. yes i want the pity. i need my family to show their acceptance in order for me to accept it.


one thing is this cancer has been here 2 years and only now is it being removed (stupid me put it off thinking it was nothing) so the fear of spreading to other organs is high in my mind...


i am happy i can come here and talkl..cause in real life all im' getting is "im so sorry but you're strong" and then in those people's minds and life they switch off the cancer talk and all is well....


hope you have a great day..im pulling for ya!


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Sat, 03-10-2007 - 6:09pm

I love your thyroid icon .. I WANT IT .. that is so perfect!

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Sat, 03-10-2007 - 6:19pm

definitely take it! i have more :) ill post them in a bit


also, my son HATED not being near me when i had teh tube...so im making up for it now :)


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