Hi girl sorry i was MIA good reason too

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Hi girl sorry i was MIA good reason too
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Mon, 06-30-2003 - 1:17pm
Well i have been out as you can tell i was having some seriouse problems with dh he didn't want to open up. The time is almost here when he has to leave for 4 to 6 months, and well i can understand it is hard on him as well as me. But w/e i was going thru a real rought week and well i didn't want my negativaty in here with you girls. I felt real bad i didn't advise but i just was not in the mood. I am better now not completly but getting there. We fixed the problem. which was nothing really big. We are both emotional people just that i accept it and he doesn't...lol...well i started the gym by the morning yeay i feel better doing it like that then going after work when i d on't want to. I feel more energized then ever. I hope everyone is doing well. Oh by the way i stuffed myself with nastey food i should not have done. But depression is what makes me like this. But i promis to myself no more when i feel like that i have to think of positive things. I am not a doll person or a negative person i love being hyper and smiling all the time. so i should not be a stranger to myself. Well you are all well. take care.

lily

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 1:24pm


Lily!

Welcome back! Oh gosh hon, we've missed you and so enjoyed your pic!

You're usually such an upbeat person but heck, we can't be upbeat all the time. Stuff happens. I'm glad you're working it out. I'm sure dh is probably getting up tight as are you over those 4-6months but you'll weather it.

Yay on getting back to the gym and routine. :)

~Golly~

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 1:43pm
Welcome back, Ms Lily ~ you were definitely missed. So glad you and dh were able to talk things out, and get back on track before he has to leave.

And I bet going to the gym first IS invigorating...but whatcha gonna do with your evenings now?..LOL

Have fun with the dots , Stel

* Stel *

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 1:56pm
Sending lots of {{{{hugs}}}} to you Lily!! We are always here for you no matter what. You could never bring us down, so feel free to come to us *anytime!*

Much love & hugs to you,

~DJ~

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Mon, 06-30-2003 - 3:09pm
your welcome (the pic) i was not sure it to send it cause i don't like how i look but hay you know hwat i saw all your pics it is only fair. I do hope everything goes well i know he is stressed and i can take more then him so i will be patiec like always. thanx i missed you all too.

lily

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Mon, 06-30-2003 - 3:12pm
*smiling* hahaha i beat ya on that. Now that i have the evenings free i can do what i want i can go to the gym again if i like to go and do more cardio or walk in the park with my friend. Cause i am going by the morning cause at night i have to wait for the machies i hate that so i rather wake up early. Thanx gilry missed you too.

lily

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 3:13pm
thanx DJ appreciate your kind words. Hope all is well for you.

lily

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Mon, 06-30-2003 - 3:15pm
Yep, welcome back Lily and I think your "sense of humour" will get through all of this. At least you have the gym to sweat the stress out!! That pic was great. Hilary
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 3:47pm
You are *very* welcome! Things are great over here! Thanks for asking girlie!! ;o)

Much love,

~DJ~

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Mon, 06-30-2003 - 4:40pm
thanx i kinda not look good in that one i look like i am in a daze lol...thanx for the welcome back well i hope my sense of humor helps everyone as they say. thanx again and have a great day. i might go again to tthe gym if not i will go walk with a friend at the park.

lily

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 6:37pm


Awww hon .. sorry to hear you had to go through this ..

However, Lily you must know you can share whatever you feel comfortable with here and it's perfectly ok ..

Glad to hear it is kind of better .. This has to be a very hard time for you both .. You need to give each other all the love, patience and understanding you possible can ..

We're here for you too hon, always, anytime :)

~Hugs~

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