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week from hell
| Sun, 07-20-2003 - 12:21am |
OMG!!! TY Hugs--i am not home you all.i AM ON MY SITERS LAPTOP.its hard to use.My mom has so TOTALLY deterioated this week, I am at my siserts house sitting my mom and using my sisters PC>.She has LOST it.both mentally and physically..we have to re-place her pronto.. ie find her a new place!! she can no longer beon her own..she has fallen 2x this week for NO reason..We have to get her straight..but no-one knows what is wrong..It has been hell..My youngest sis is here now to help from baltimore..its a battle just to keep her from going nuts(MOM)..dementia..no strength..still smoking..she falls down at the drop of ahat..I cant take it anymore.Her facility wants her to leave(smoking in bed)--BUSTED.Mom doesnt know what day it is..or anything,,,all she wants is to sleep--eat--and smoke.she slept 18 hrs today!!!Its like a night mare--if she doesnt have cigs she goes nuts..My little sis hs no patience...never smoked==but Mom will be COMATOSE and crawl for a cig..it so sad..I cant DEAL w/ this anymore.My older sis went to the beach w/ dh for a break--i am alone--Lilsis asleep,also.God help us--gotta find hera place PRONTO..I dont have the room or means..I am so stressed..I have missed you all.I want my LIFE BACK!!!!!xooxoxoxoxoMel


I wish I could think of more--try to calm down--10 deep breathes and a glass of cold water--seriously!!!!In the meantime--HUGS and kind thoughts coming your way!!!!!
My heart and prayers go out to you as you're going through this. Take it one moment at a time and know we're there in your pocket whenever you need us.
Love and gentle hugs,
Golly
Awww {{{Mel}}}
I feel so bad .. wish I could really do something for you hon.
Sorry to hear about your Mom all of a sudden like this.
Glad you are there for her though .. Thank goodness for your sister's laptop too
Hopefully you get some answers on Monday from the doctor right ..
As for her smoking .. oh sheesh .. She may have no choice but to quit ..
Talk about being forced into a quit ..
All you can do now is to be your strongest .. Know you must be there to help your Mom ..
You will get your life back .. For now Do what you must ..
We are here for you always hon ..
Lots of loving thoughts and prayers for you all ..
Please keep us posted on what's going on when you can.
~Hugs~
I'm hoping and praying this will all be calmer for you both soon.
xoxo,
tracy