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HELP!!!!!!
| Thu, 08-07-2003 - 6:39pm |
I should be ashamed of myself. My mother wants to come over for the week-end, but it is sooooo hard to deal w/ her.She can hardly walk--EXCEPT when she wants a cigarette, I have to wait on her hand and foot, its not that she cant do things,,she just wont TRY.So it will be day 3 for me w/ no cigs..I have to drive to Clearwater to pick her up.She has gotten very cranky and demanding since her accident--besides being incontinent, she always messes the bed, and she stays in my sons room ( which he cant stand..I have to literally disinfect it when she leaves) Dont get me wrong--I love my mom..but taking care of her and 2 kids this week-end will be quite stressful. So PRAY I make it thru the week-end w/ out going INSANE!!!!xoxoxo Mel


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Some elderly moms can do quite a guilt trip and sounds like yours knows how. After reading the rest of your thread here in outline, the image of her smoking sounds like it can help you. Come here when you can to vent and whine and get some of Hug's comfort cheese. We know you can do it but you sure don't have to do it alone-we're here for you!
Hugs,
~Golly
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