Good morning buddies!!!!

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Good morning buddies!!!!
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Mon, 09-22-2003 - 9:41am
Hey all...just thought I would let you know how things went with Ryan this weekend. He is absolutely amazing. Treats me like a princess...even though I have a semi-hard time letting someone get close. We went out friday night and then last night he brought over 2 movies and I have to say I had a great time. I don't know if it's just me being afraid of getting hurt, but when he's around, I have a hard time telling him what's going thru my head but as soon as he leaves I wish he was still there b/c I think of 100 things I want to say to him.

I keep thinking we're in different places as to what we want out of a relationship. He's never really been in anything serious, and I know we can't say waht will happen, but the conclusion I've come to is that I'm afraid to open up, let him in, start falling for him, want more, and then have him not feel the same thing. Part of me thinks it's not true, and i just think that b/c of what has happened in the past. But it's all so confusing.

So, anyway, I do want to just relax and go with it. He told me he notices that I'm not cofortable opening up and he said that's ok, he hasn't pressured me to talk or anything but he has been so honest with me about so much which I really like...and I want to give the same, I just think it's gonna take some time.

aaahhhh...thanks for listening..again...hope you all had a marvelous weekend!

HUGS

kim

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Mon, 09-22-2003 - 10:53am
AHHH-Young Love!! Enjoy it while you can!!!LOL! Mel--PS.I cant give ANY advice --its been TOO long!!

"Mel on Wheels"    

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Mon, 09-22-2003 - 1:27pm


Hi Kim! :)

>>aaahhhh...thanks for listening..again...hope you all had a marvelous weekend!

**Thanks Kim, sounds like you did and thanks for sharing!! ;)

Perhaps just writing it all down will help you see where you're at and/or form what you do want to share with him. I've often found writing something down helps clarify my thoughts on the matter.

Have a wonderful day. :)

~Golly

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Mon, 09-22-2003 - 3:48pm
>> I do want to just relax and go with it.

**Hey you, it's VERY early days yet. Just let it happen. Methinks you need to go with the flow a little and not analyze so much. :)) Sounds like quite a guy. Hilary
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Mon, 09-22-2003 - 5:49pm
Hi Kim

This sounds like quite a guy hon ..

Give it time, do take it slow.

When you feel comfortable you will open up ..

Those kind of things just *happen*

As you say .. time will tell .. have fun :)

~Hugs~

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Mon, 09-22-2003 - 5:59pm
HOW EXCITING!!

What ever is supposed to happen will...relax.

~~tracy