my aching back!!!

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my aching back!!!
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Mon, 10-13-2003 - 1:48pm
Well it seems that wood gets slippery when wet! I found this out when I slipped and fell down the front steps yesterday. I am a little black and blue and sore. OOPSIE!!!!

Dh has been down it the dumps all weekend. He went to pick up his kids and they did not want to go. The boy was sad and pouting when he said he did not want to go. I think their mom had something to do with that cuz that was unusual for his boy. I dont get it. I would never use my kids to play head games. I wish she would back off. I have learned that she calles his employer and probation officer all the time. Isnt that aginst the law for them to give her information? they were never married. Now dh is so hurt and heartbroken over this. I wish I could make him feel better but all I can do is tell him I love him and am there if he needs me. I love him and hate to see him this way. I have no idea what to say or do to help him. ~Mary~

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Mon, 10-13-2003 - 2:34pm

Mary - - how AWFUL!!!

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Mon, 10-13-2003 - 2:39pm
I would never use my kids to play head games.

**But so many do. Disgraceful. You are doing everything you can do by being there and supportive. Hey, I hope your back feels better soon. Hilary
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Mon, 10-13-2003 - 4:02pm

Oh ouch on your back..hurts me just reading about it!
Aww Mary, I'm so sorry dh and the kids have to go through what it sounds like this lady is doing to them.


>>I wish I could make him feel better but all I can do is tell him I love him and am there if he needs me.
**Just love him and be there for him I guess. It's so hard when our loved ones hurt.
You hang in there and feel better too with those bruises. Not fun and I'm sure glad you didn't break anything. :)

~Golly~

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Mon, 10-13-2003 - 4:25pm
How terrible.Your Dh's ex sounds EVIL??Maybe SHE pushed you down the steps and ya THOUGHT ya fell!!Just kidding..take some anti-immflammatorys If you are allowed and lie down!! xoxoMel

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Mon, 10-13-2003 - 4:46pm
I agree Tracy she has tried to split us up several times before. She has even gone so far as to lie to her lawyer saying he was visiting her and having sex with her telling her he was going to leave me. The lawyer had her write down the dates and times and found out that my dh was in college classes on thoes days and times so they made her seek counseling. Which has obvoiusly done ne good cuz now she is involving the kids. Two weeks ago his daughter was running to him with kisses and hugs now she hides by her mom and wont talk to him. And he had no contact with the kids in thoes two weeks. His visitation is every other weekend. I dont know how to deal with it. The stress it causes is unreal.~Mary~
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Mon, 10-13-2003 - 5:14pm
Awwwww, Mary. Big hugs to ya. How old are the kids in question?

Do you think the lawyer who helped before could help again?

Please keep us updated on what I'm sure IS a terribly stressful situation.

Thoughts & prayers going your way, Stel

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Mon, 10-13-2003 - 5:46pm
Awwww {{{Mary}}}
Sorry to hear about your fall.
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