partnered with a teen mom
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|Tue, 03-25-2003 - 11:31pm|
She has two sons. one 27 and one 16. The 16 year old is in the process of staying for two weeks at his co parents place and two weeks at his blood moms place. he has accepted me a his moms lover. his behavior has been rather frustrating for me. as he hardly goes to school. he steels money from me and others in the home. he has stole his moms car keys twice has got caught. his present consquence is he has no house keys and can not get in his house till his mom comes home. as he had been hanging out at home instead of going to school. today was the first day of this con.. he skipped school again and spent the day at his friends house. he is also not getting rides to his friends house. tomorrow maxine is taking to the school counseller.
I am not sure what my role is here. She certainly does want me around this i do not doubt. i ve told her she needs some professional help and her freinds have also have told her. i am starting to get exasperated with her x and her figuring things out as maxine one minute is fine then becomes upset about her son and her x. i am beginning to not want to go to her place as much, as i get uncomfortable when she is getting into conflict situations with her son. i feel its not my place to say anything, as i am not his parent. We are not living together as we are not at that place yet. so how do i stay clear in this situation. i am not her sons parent