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Loss of Hope
| Mon, 06-21-2004 - 12:01pm |
I went to Gay Pride this weekend with my friend and I think that I loss all hope of ever finding someone. I am a femme lesbian and I am looking to find another Femme like me. Anyhoo, we went to Gay Pride and boy was I dissapointed. All I saw were butch women (no offense to women who are butch). I have been single for 8 months now, and after going to Gay Pride I have a feeling that I will be single for a long time probably. Where are the femme girls? How can you tell that they are gay or bi???? Is there hope for me? Im so sad.

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I would suggest stop looking but keep your eyes open.
Did you even enjoy a moment of your time at the pride parade? Did you laughed with your friend and find an interesting float to talk about with your friend? Was your conversation so entertaining and interesting a total stranger join in with a smile even for a second or two? There’s a world of lesbian fem out there. They’re also looking for an interesting fun person. Good luck.
Hi there!
What about not looking for a femme or a butch and just looking for a person to be with?
*hugs ~ Caly
When at a Pride event, it's OK to assume that most people there are gay. My question to you is why weren't you wearing something that showed that you are? There are tshirts, necklaces, bracelets, pins, caps, earrings, etc etc etc. If you don't want to wear something like that normally... you should be able to get away with it at a Pride event. Just a thought.
OH... And, don't take offense when someone advises you to relax and enjoy yourself. The most important people that come into your life will do it when you are least expecting -- and NOT looking.
Sometimes we try so hard we miss everything, as in the old "can't see the forest for the trees" line. I've met all manner of dykes, an rainbow doesn't begin to do this spectrum justice. Best advice I can offer is to be you, to be confident someone will love you, and will be a great match, and be patient... we have a habit of stumbling into these things. I did last summer and got myself into a crazy situation, but still the ties for a time were tighter than any ever in my life, and btw... she was very femme with a spirit that was both femme and butch. There is just so much uniqueness out there, and your perfect package exists, you just haven't met yet.
*hugs*
Hi meatheadnhawaii.
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
*hugs ~ Caly
(((((((((Hugs meathead))))))))) I think the others gave you some great insight and advice.
Hugs!
~C
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