Male lesbians?

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Male lesbians?
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 1:26am
Okay, warning y'all that this may get long and maybe confusing in advance, but...

I just came back upstairs from the courtyard after a long, wine induced discussion-turned-debate with a 65 y/o dyke (neighbor of mine) over male lesbians. Heck, the only reason we're not still arguing out there now is b/c her wife marched down (in her curlers and slippers) and ordered us both to shut up and go to bed.

So...yeah I know, next time we talk it's going to be "what were we arguing about" "I dunno". But I am thinking about it now and decided I want more input - like, who's right and who's wrong sorta thing.

Her outlook on male lesbians is that they're all just horny men who want to hook up with lesbians. I don't think so. I actually knew a guy in high school who identified himself as a lesbian. He was very vocal about it, but we all just thought it was a big joke. Well, last year was my 10/yr reunion. I didn't go, but found out through an old friend that SHE did. Yeah, the guy who called himself a lesbian is now a woman, and still only with women. Maybe if it weren't for her, I would've agreed with my neighbor (or at least taken her word for it and not gotten into a 2 hour debate).

What are your thoughts? What do y'all think about male lesbians? Okay, I better hit the sack b4 her wife sees the light on.....

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Registered: 03-21-2003
In reply to: sadie_mc
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 7:18am

((((((((((((((((Rayeellen)))))))))))))))))


8-)

*hugs ~ Caly

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Registered: 03-21-2003
In reply to: sadie_mc
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 7:21am

Whooooo Hooooooooooo Kathy!!


I still play Everquest and have a Barbarian Warrior named Mamabear!

*hugs ~ Caly

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: sadie_mc
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 10:41am

Mamabear Hugsalot!?!?!


LOL!

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Registered: 03-24-2003
In reply to: sadie_mc
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 11:15am
>>......Ummmmmm, excuse my ignorance again, but is there an actual term in existence used to describe males who say they're lesbians? Just curious, b/c I'm also not good with labels and such. Am I offending anyone here? Okay, maybe I should just shut up and crawl back into my little hole, where I soooooo feel like I belong right now.<<

Not that I know of... mesbians? Dudeians?

Seriously, it depends on the root of why one would identify that way... if they are trolling, then... opportunists. I really don't see how one makes the connection to lesbianism unless they have gender issues. It's ok to identify with what they might percieve as elements of the dyke community, though how they get to these assumptions is beyond me, because there is a whole lot of diversity under this section of the rainbow.

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Registered: 03-24-2003
In reply to: sadie_mc
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 11:23am
Thanks Caly... and *hugs* back!
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Registered: 08-01-2004
In reply to: sadie_mc
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 11:48am
Another warrior here! But I picked a proper race, a GNOME! I played on Morrel-Thule.

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Registered: 03-21-2003
In reply to: sadie_mc
Wed, 08-04-2004 - 12:07pm

A gnome warrior?

*hugs ~ Caly

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