I have this theory...

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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 7:36am
I think I would get a lot more sleep if I was in NZ for the morning and then over there in the afternoon, because it would be night time and I could go to bed again..! (and if I was having a bad day, I could wake up and start it over again, lol!)

Has anyone perfected the teleporter thingee yet?

Last night I was off to bed at 11pm and Stefan decided he didnt have a clean uniform, so I had to sit up while it washed so I could put it in the dryer... and tonight I am cleaning multiple viruses off Nat's computer. She has the latest Nortons installed, updated with the latest virus patterns because I went to their website and checked - I have run the scan 4 times in the last 2 days, it turned up 2 instances of the w32.korgo.v virus but nothing else. I knew it wasnt right, something HAD to be here...so I went to trendmicro.com and ran housecall which returned with 20 instances of the BKDR BERBEW.I virus, 1 of the TROJ DELF.RA virus and 1 of the TROJ ALCHEMIC.A virus - all listed on Nortons website as being detected and removed by the latest pattern files.

I am about to go through the registry and manually delete the entries created by the viruses and am downloading PC Cillin for Nat so we dont go through this again. I have used PC-Cillin for the last 2 or 3 years - the only time I had a virus on my computer was when I used Nortons and according to the file properties had been on my system for 6 months without being detected and once again, Housecall picked it up!

Nat is so fed up with computer problems, sick kids, fighting kids... she is paranoid my son is going to kill one of her kids in their sleep- she went to the doctor today and is back on Xanax. Stupid thing is - her daughter attacked my son, he didnt fight back. He has only ever hurt her kids when provoked and he takes a LOT from them before he gets that mad. These days, everything that goes missing, they blame him. He got the blame for the computer viruses... I am feeling sorry for him. Except that he assaulted me the other day when I took his Xbox as a punishment for breaching his grounding which was a punishment for taking Stefan's things without asking... yada yada... I am wondering if he would be better off in a foster home for now.

I could go to bed, but I cant leave something once I start it until I have finished it. I am going to fix this darn thing if it takes me til 3am! I think she will owe me some computer time for that...! The Xanax makes her sleep so I will do as I please tomorrow- leave the coffee pot on for me!


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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 10:07am

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Don't know if you're kidding or not.

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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 10:20am
(((Ven)))I am with Pam..Don't know if that was a kidding line about your Son or not but Foster Care?.. Here as she said, it's a messy long thing if a child gets in one at getting them back out,anyhow seems to me Hon you need to get your son some therapy and both you need to move and get yourself some calm and a place for your son to have time one on one with you and away from all the stress..
I feel for everyone in that household but a certain few are sounding in real need of some serious (((Hugs))))) talking... listening...and space..
Just My Opinion though Hon,I have problems here of my own(Son's) that I am still trying to piece together work out

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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 11:28am
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Sounds like its tough goin' all the way around over there hon, I thought I had the teleporter workin' fine, but so far you're not here?! Better check the wiring on your end. Anytime you want to run away you know you are safe with me. ;)

Sending calming vibes your way..

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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 11:40am

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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 12:22pm

Sheesh, Ven - you have way more than

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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 8:25pm
oh boy and throw eggs at the relatives?!! Cool, I will get out my book on elecronics! This is the beginner one, I believe there are 20 others in the series so dont hold your breath!

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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 9:21pm
I really dont know what to do with him anymore. I cant have him assaulting me everytime I say No! Nat doesnt trust him around her kids in case he loses it and really hurts one of them. I find it strange when she says things like that. She is on medication to help her sleep at night because she has become paranoid that Hamish is going to harm her or her kids in their sleep. Her kids are a lot more violent, they use violence against each other 10 times a day - Hamish only loses it once in a while but somehow its much worse when he does? I dont really understand at all.

You know, I would love to move out but I have nowhere to go. I dont think parking the car under a bridge would be any kind of solution.


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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 9:27pm
Thanks Cat. It's not easy raising kids these days, huh? I get no respect whatsoever from this boy and I am at a loss as to what to do with him anymore. I have taken everything he owns from him, save a change of clothes and his school uniform. But now, he has nothing left, what do I do next time? Cant ground him because he takes off anyway... I am running out of options.

My nephew went into foster care until he was 18 I think. He went to his mothers place everyday for lunch. I am not sure of the circumstances but he was getting into a lot of trouble- breaking into cars and houses and things and his mother was never home to supervise him so this was what she was told had to happen to keep his little butt out of jail. He did really well with the change of environment. Doesnt mean it would work the same for my lad though, huh?


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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 9:50pm

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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 10:34pm
I am sorry u have to put in overtime to straighten out what probably is child's play, LOL. And {{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}} to you for going thru the child bit. I have a 17 yr old son who moved to FL. with his father. Has gotten into so much trouble down there that I wish he was up here in the hicks. I feel he would not be so much trouble other than not going to school. Hang in there sweetie. Things will work out at some point. Just pray for guidance.

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