A sad story ....

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Registered: 04-15-2004
A sad story ....
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Thu, 08-26-2004 - 12:11pm

Heya all,


Me being the honest Nelly I am, I just wanted to share something with y'all. The relationship I was in is over. We have desided that we will still be close friends , but nothing more than that. She and I have too many issues right now for this to work in a healthy way. Of couse, this is very painful ... but it is the best for the both of us right now. Who knows, maybe somewhere down the road things will change.


Huggles,

"Kitty Cat Rules"
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Registered: 03-21-2003
Fri, 08-27-2004 - 8:18am

(((((((((((((Robin)))))))))))))))) and ((((((((((((((Traci))))))))))))))


Im here for both of you!

*hugs ~ Caly

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Fri, 08-27-2004 - 9:00am
(((((Robin)))) Sorry things have changed. I know you are going through one of the toughest times in your life right now.

Maybe it is just time for you to take care of Robin. Just get through this time without having to worry others in your life.

Maybe things will change later but you just take care of you now. You have the LL board to come to and vent and not worry about how it affects anyone. I know it is different in a relationship where the other person has wants and needs that at times we are not ready for.

I wish I could wave a magic wand and make everything better for you and everyone else here.

I am glad to hear that you and Traci will remain close during this time. And you're right,

down the road who knows.

I wish I could give you a big bear hug.

You are a sweet person from what I know from this board and I really don't like to see you hurting in any way.



Hugs, Laurie
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Fri, 08-27-2004 - 11:51am

((((hugs)))) to you, Robin and to Traci as well. I'm awfully sorry things didn't work out for you both. Perhaps you will be better for eachother as close friends while you deal with your own personal issues.


Strength and solace to you
..... along with a giant pile of chocolates~


 

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Fri, 08-27-2004 - 9:34pm
BIG HUGS to you. I'm very sorry. You can always express yourself and find support here.

Take care,

rj

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Registered: 04-25-2003
Sat, 08-28-2004 - 6:08am
I'm adding my {{{{hugs}}}} to those before. I hope everything works out for you both. I know it's not easy, I went through a similar thing a couple of years back. It wasnt through lack of love for each other that we called it a day, it was circumstantial. It has taken most of that time, though, to be able to work towards preserving our friendship- sometimes it's easier said than done after a relationship. I hope the path is a lot less rocky for you two.

Please dont become strangers to us all here, the input and support both of you have contributed has been valuable to the community so dont let your spot on the couch go cold!

take care of yourselves {{{{{{{{more hugs}}}}}}}}


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Registered: 10-08-2003
Mon, 08-30-2004 - 9:26am

(((((((((((((((((Traci)))))))))))))))))) ((((((((((((((((((((Robin))))))))))))))))))))))


Sending lots of love and good thoughts out to you both. I wish you both all the best.


(((((((((((Big Hugs)))))))))))))


~C

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Registered: 04-15-2004
Tue, 08-31-2004 - 4:06pm

Thanks all for you sweet words and many hugs !


Yep, it hurts ..... yep, life does go on .... and hail Goddess I start going to the shrink tomorrow !!!


Hugs to you all,

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Tue, 08-31-2004 - 4:08pm
{{{{{{{{{{{Robin}}}}}}}}}}}
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Registered: 11-06-2003
Tue, 08-31-2004 - 6:18pm

Thank you all for the hugs & positive vibes~

~ ML ~  

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Registered: 04-13-2002
Tue, 08-31-2004 - 7:08pm

Hugs to both you and Traci....