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| Wed, 09-01-2004 - 3:08am |
The moment our relationship began, I felt like a whole world opened up to me that I never knew existed and I was forever altered by it. I have never felt more complete and whole in my entire life and can't imagine settling for anything less. My husband and I are ending our relationship, mostly for this reason and I am trying to find the courage to move forward through my life, whatever that brings me.
I have searched high and low trying to find some information that would give me some validation as to what I am going through. Mostly everything I read are stories of woman who always had some attraction to other women but denied it. I feel like I am the only woman in the world who went from being completely straight, to never wanting to be with another man, virtually overnight.
Is there anyone, anyone who can relate to what I am going through? My husband and my friends (the ones who are speaking to me,) all think that I have lost my mind. My therapist says that I don't really need to determine my sexual orientation at this time, but I feel like I do. I just really need to hear that I'll find my way through. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Wow Citagirl!
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*hugs* and welcome!
Edited 9/2/2004 9:26 pm ET ET by rayeellen
I agree with what all the others have said. What counts is the love you feel, not the reasons why... that sorts itself out with time. I've met plenty who never expected to find themselves in a relationship with another woman only to find they are. I'm going to find how that works and bottle it. ;-)
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Hi citagirl, I just wanted to say welcome to the board and thanks for sharing your story. I hope we'll see you around here some more :)
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