Oh help, please?????
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| Mon, 09-06-2004 - 3:12am |
Well, the last time I posted about B, I believe I confirmed that we were dating casually. And that's what it's been for the last couple of weeks. I guess the one thing that attracts me to her the most is that she has no baggage. Unlike myself, she is young, vibrant, carefree...she's a breath of fresh air everytime I'm around her. I feel that I am a weight that brings her down - and I don't want to do that. All I really desire is a friendship with her, but I know that's not what she wants. Each time I've tried to bring this up, and my reasons behind my feelings, I end up feeling worse than I did before. Why the hell did I have to run into her at the store that day?!?!? Both of us could be resuming our normal lives today had it not been for that chance encounter. I want her to be happy, but I know it'll never be with me. Question is... How on earth do I convince her of that? *buries her head in the sand* My heart is sinking again...

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IMHO you Cant convince her sweetie,
No one can MAKE another person believe something or do something they dont want to do.
*hugs ~ Caly
If it is casual dating then enjoy your time with her when she is that little breath of fresh air.
It is impossible to tell someone how they will feel about something and have them believe that you know their feelings better than they do. It just never seem to work.
If you enjoy your situation then go with it. People come in to our lives for a reason. sooner or later you will figure out why she is there.
Just have fun and don't worry about something in the future. You really can't predict the future anyway.
If you need it to end then tell her that you just cannot do this because the timing is wrong for you.
Hope things work out which ever you decide.
Keep us posted.
Laurie
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Sadie, do you like her?
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If you are uncertain, take it slow, but go with the flow and see where it takes you.
*hugs*
(((((( Sadie ))))))
Nothing justs " happens " , I believe everything has a reason behind it ( even if we
>All I really desire is a friendship with her, but I know that's not what she wants.
I think that the input everyone else has given you is excellent.
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
Hi Sadie,
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I do like her, quite more than I would like to admit. I was talking with her on the phone earlier. I was kind of in a *blah* mood before she called, but then I started relaying the events of the past two days (McD's, put put, my confusion this morning - I posted it in the Monday Moan if you want the full story) and she starts laughing. And gawd she knows how to laugh - that genuine, loud laughter that comes from the pit of your belly and resonates through the chest and vibrates off the walls...I'm envious, all I can do is *giggle*. I was lifted out of my funk immediately. ~sigh
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