Oh help, please?????

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Oh help, please?????
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Mon, 09-06-2004 - 3:12am
~sigh. I'm lost, once again?

Well, the last time I posted about B, I believe I confirmed that we were dating casually. And that's what it's been for the last couple of weeks. I guess the one thing that attracts me to her the most is that she has no baggage. Unlike myself, she is young, vibrant, carefree...she's a breath of fresh air everytime I'm around her. I feel that I am a weight that brings her down - and I don't want to do that. All I really desire is a friendship with her, but I know that's not what she wants. Each time I've tried to bring this up, and my reasons behind my feelings, I end up feeling worse than I did before. Why the hell did I have to run into her at the store that day?!?!? Both of us could be resuming our normal lives today had it not been for that chance encounter. I want her to be happy, but I know it'll never be with me. Question is... How on earth do I convince her of that? *buries her head in the sand* My heart is sinking again...

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 12:11pm
lol.....oops,lol.....well if you want a reason to let things go or just be friends,you don't really need one.

If that is your strongest feeling then well maybe you should go with that...

I just felt well maybe you could use something exciting and fun in your life....even when we have no clue if it will be the person we are with for 8 months or 8 years

and well maybe she sees you are special enough that she wants to be there for you regardless....I had many people try to back away for they had issues in life and well I never let them.....If I can help it.

If I like someone I like them,maybe it is bad I never use my head for love....well not many times I haven't(sometimes you have to)but I have had fun and well had experiences.

You should go with how you feel...we'll be here regardless :)...have a great day,Jo

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