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How many of you . . .
| Fri, 09-10-2004 - 2:51pm |
When I fell in love with gf and decided that I'm a lesbian, I thought that I was the only straight woman in the world who fell in love with a woman and out of love with all men practically overnight. Obviously I am wrong about this, because I have found all of you . . .
Since I'm new here and don't know all of your stories, I was just curious how many of you were in heterosexual relationships when you discovered you wanted to be with women? Many of you have advised me about dh and my upcoming divorce so I am assuming that it's quite a few of you. I am just curious as to how widespread this (wonderful,) epidemic is?
Scarlet :)

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As for markers in the road, I ignored mine too, what a waste of time. I spent my whole life in denial with the exception of a little thing I had with a girl in high school, and then again with one of my sisters friends. Oh well, can't turn back the clock can we?
Hey Scarlet, we are going to be ok, right?
Sandra
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I truly believe that sometimes the universe (or God, or whatever you want to call it,) will whisper to us to guide us.
If we don't listen, she will talk a little louder.
If we still don't listen, she will talk even louder.
If we still dont' listen, she will start to yell.
And if we still don't listen, she will throw a rock at our head, (or send the love of our life to us that happens to be a woman and we can't resist or stop our overpowering emotions, desires, or actions . . .)
Following our hearts is really the only "reasonable" thing to do in life. It is really, really, hard knowling how much some of our choices hurt other people, but ultimately we are going to be at the end of our lives someday. I know that I want to look back at my life and not think about all of the time that I wasted, all of the happiness that I missed out on, and all of the experiences I didn't experience.
Yes, we are going to be okay. Wake up every day and tell yourself that, because in order for it to happen, you must first create it in yourself.
Love and hugs,
Scarlet
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Very interesting thread you have generated here Scarlet.
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I am also amazed of how many people have been in a heterasexual relationship on this board. And I too am one also. Was married for 25 yrs to a male and did not enjoy any of it. This is what was set into our minds growing up. Marry a male who will take care of you. Again, I too have found that females are so much more luving, compatable and true to their words more so than males. To this day, I still wonder where the time flies when making luv with a woman. Seems like a few minutes but in reality it is a few hours. NursePam, have not heard from u. LOL
Count me in too. Married to him for 17 yrs and lived with him for 3 yrs prior to that.
My sister used to think it odd that he was the only man I'd ever slept with. LOL,
Exactly.
Congratulations on finding your sexuality. Have a good day.
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