Just got served my Divorce papers

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Registered: 09-10-2004
Just got served my Divorce papers
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Wed, 09-15-2004 - 12:17pm

I hate this 'man' !!!!


This is in no way a male bashing post, just my feelings about the idiot. He thinks I am going to roll over ( again ) and just take what he thinks I should get ... ROFLMAOOOOOOOO ! I have already called my lawyer and I am going to let her loose on him.


I am so

Robin

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Wed, 09-15-2004 - 12:20pm
((((((((((((Robin)))))))))))))) I know this is easier said than done at a time like this, but PLEASE take care of yourself. Sounds like your lawyer is ready for the battle. Keep us posted. Big hugs, sweetie!
Ting

Ting 

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Wed, 09-15-2004 - 1:27pm
Robin, I know this is difficult, but you need to calm down and take care of yourself. Don't let him hurt you more than you already hurt. Handle the situation as the strong woman that you are. Hugs and love, Sandra

Sandr

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Registered: 10-01-2003
Wed, 09-15-2004 - 2:30pm

Hey Wobbs...


You don't need the extra stress... and I'm not sure quite how to word this, but I have an idea for you.


Whatever these divorce papers contain that has gotten you so worked up, think of it as an opening salvo in negotiations. Like when you dicker over a price at a yard sale. He's gonna ask for as much as he can. Nobody expects you to agree. You, in turn, ask for as much as you can ( or feel comfortable with). He won't agree either.


Then the lawyers compromise for you both.


Does that reduce the sting, even just a little bit? I know it's simplistic, but I wanted to help if I could.


think oohhhhmmmmm ;P


~ Nony

 

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Wed, 09-15-2004 - 2:45pm

I was just thinking the same thing Nony.

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Wed, 09-15-2004 - 2:51pm

((((((((((((((((((ROBIN)))))))))))))))))))


Thinking of you sweetie!

*hugs ~ Caly

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Registered: 09-10-2004
Wed, 09-15-2004 - 3:09pm

Thanks ladies for everything.


I've calmed down a bit ( thank Goddess for Xanax ) and I've sent all the paperwork and documentation I have to my lawyer. Nony & Kim ... one of the first things I learned from my Sicilian Grampa was ' you cover your butt '! And I am :) I was the organized one in this relationship.


Thanks for all your words of wisdom, I really appreciate it all. Oh, Caly. your right. You are NOT loosing it, my Ugg day is tomorrow ( oops, Pam

Robin

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-15-2004 - 10:14pm
Wishing u all the best. If you need any help (I was married for 25 yrs.) Please contact me. Am more than willing to give you experience.
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Wed, 09-15-2004 - 10:36pm

(((((((Robin)))))))