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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 3:14pm
Do y'all allow people that you barely know touch your hair?

The reason why I'm asking this question is because, I live in a building with a lot of other people, and two have so far touched my hair. I know that it's a clear violation of my boundaries, and I've told each person to keep their hands out of my hair, and their answer is "I just want to see how soft it is, it just looks so soft and I had to see for myself." I said, "Ok, but next time could you just ask first!" I don't even like my mom to touch my hair. So, I just wear a baseball cap or some type of hat on my head to protect it. Geez, I mean you never know where people's hands have been. Ok, that's it for my mini vent. I mean I'll let Gracemae touch it(and anywhere else for that matter) and my hair stylist touch it and that's about it. But I just don't like for just anyone to touch my hair, I guess I'm just vain about that.

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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 3:34pm
I LOVE my hair touched! I guess it would be weird for a stranger to touch it, but I wouldn't mind. Your hair must be very pretty - take it as a compliment! Smooch, Sandra

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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 3:35pm
A loud buzzer should sound when your hair is touched and scare the **** out of them. That is totally inappropriate!

Then again, if a woman touched it, I'd respond as you did. If a guy did... he'd be singing like Yoko Ono.


Edited 9/16/2004 3:38 pm ET ET by rayeellen

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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 4:20pm

I couldn't have said it better !


I have VERY long hair, people are always trying to touch it to see if it is real ( which it is ) or extentions. It drives me NUTZ unless I give permission to do so.


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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 7:43pm


Well, thanks Sandra. My hair is nice looking, and I do take it as a compliment, but can't folks just look?

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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 8:05pm



That's really funny raye, lol. <...if a guy did... he'd be singing like Yoko Ono.>

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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:00pm
It's sort of like when you're pg and people want to touch your tummy.

I used to hate that!

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Fri, 09-17-2004 - 1:12am
Now I am very curious of what your hair is like.

I usually don't mind if someone touches my hair. They usually touch my hair when I let it go naturally because then it is curly and they touch it and ask if it is natural.

I usually style it straight though.

GF likes it half and half because she thinks it is really sexy. So I do it that way when we go out. That way I keep her eyes on me. lol.

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Fri, 09-17-2004 - 1:18am
Your hair must be very attractive gigi..
I don't really have people touching

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Fri, 09-17-2004 - 11:58am


Well Laurie,

my hair is short(but it grows like weeds)and from what I'm told by the unfortunate people that put their hands in my head, that it's soft.

 


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Fri, 09-17-2004 - 12:33pm


~~~~Gigi picks kitten up and starts to stroke her hair, and kitten purrs~~.

Well, Cat, my hair really isn't all that for me to make a fuss about, I just get freaked out when folks think that its ok to just come over to me and just start stroking my hair.

Amongst my other erogenous zones, my hair is another source of arousal for me. I don't mind it if a woman touches my hair, it just that it's not Gracemae, and it's nothing but a tease for me.

Well, Cat, I imagine that people would want to touch your hair(and yes, one more time)if you come to the Meet and Greet, we all can see you and ~S~ irl, and look at your hair.

~Gigi hugs kitten and gently puts her down.~

 


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