You Never Know...

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Registered: 04-13-2002
You Never Know...
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Fri, 09-17-2004 - 3:00pm

I've been doing a lot of thinking in the past weeks with all that has gone on in my sweetie's life and as a result, my own. That's NOT to say or imply that my life would be absolutely wonderful right now if my baby weren't hurting so badly because I DO have stressors, triggers and stuff of my own to deal with that NO DOUBT affects her negatively at times too! (Sorry, baby!) But just the same, this period HAS had a tremendous impact on me as well. And so I thank you all for being there...for offering your friendship, support and good wishes to both of us! We sure do need it!


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Registered: 03-25-2003
Sat, 09-18-2004 - 10:43am
{{{{{Caly}}}}} xo ooopsie stupid iVillage monster. Oh well, guess you get double hugs from me today.


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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sat, 09-18-2004 - 11:15pm
Lori, I love that "fake it till you make it" line. I think we all have to do that once in a while. Be strong, patient, and understanding,all will go they way it is supposed to. Hugs to you and Sandy, I'll keep you in my prayers. Sandra

Sandr

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Registered: 04-13-2002
Sun, 09-19-2004 - 12:39pm

Hi Sandra and thanks for the thoughts and prayers...we sure do need them!


Not much has changed really. My sweet Sandy is still struggling and therefore, so am I! I try hard to be strong (the patient is usually not a problem for I tend to stick with family, friends and especially my partner for the long haul!) but sometimes strength feels as if it is nowhere in sight when I'm feeling as if suddenly I am unloved by her and I don't understand why. The BIGGEST question I have when she goes through a

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sun, 09-19-2004 - 2:57pm
Lori, It sounds like she may be making progress. I am sorry for both of you, I can see how you are both hurting so much. It would seem only natural that when 2 people are in love and they both hurt, that they would help eachother through. BUT life is more complex than that, isn't it? Well, time heals most wounds, and love conquers all so hang in there. By the way, I was recently in a place where I was so low that I didn't even want to fix things, it was more comfortable to be in that state than to face the problems. She is probably in that phase, and will come around when she builds the energy to face some issues. I'm thinking of you both - hugs and smooches to you and Sandy, Sandra

Sandr

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