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| Sun, 09-19-2004 - 9:45am |
I am seeking advice, recently a co-worker and I have struck up a friendship and I'm not sure where to go next. We spend a lot of time on phone, emailing and txt messaging and an occasional dinner. Here's my dilemma... I do not know if this other women is gay or not... think so but unsure. I don't want to ruin the friendship by doing something inappropriate...but she consumes my thoughts on a daily basis. I get the feeling we are both waiting for the other to make the first move….I am not confident enough to “go for it” for I fear it will change whatever chances we have at a friendship…help

Sandr
Hi Ivnyy!
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
Hi lvnyy and welcome to the board. I agree with Sandra and Pam, I think the best thing to do is for you to come out to her. Once you are out of the closet, if she is gay, that opens the door for her to come out to you. Once you are both out of the closet, then it would be fine to let her know that you are interested. If she is not gay, then you don't risk losing a friendship by making her feel uncomfortable. Come back and let us know what you do and how it works out!
Hugs!
~C