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| Wed, 09-22-2004 - 12:37pm |
well...we were denied...as adoptive parents...because I got arrested in 1980...and i did not bring it up because i was told all charges were dropped...that my record had been cleaned....but obviously it wasnt.....so our little girl waits in an orphanage with no one waiting to adopt her...my woman is, well,..upset and angry...and i...want to die

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Damn!
Kim
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Im sooo sorry sweetie, I just dont understand the "system" sometimes, it just gets me soooo mad!
A mother can get out prison for murder and regain custody of her natural children but they penalize you for some this small.. ARRRRRRRRRRGH
Many many Hugs of Support to you both!
*hugs ~ Caly
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I am so sorry !
many huggles,
Robin
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Soozi, just in case you didn't get the e-mail that I sent to you through your profile, My suggestion is that you try to get your record expunged. I know that my first girlfriend tried to get into security work, but couldn't because of her record.
I know that you are an intelligent woman, but you have to go through a process (yes, another process)to have your record cleared completely. I really don't know where you live, but check with your legal system to see what you have to do. I know through experiencing helping my first girlfriend out, I had to be a character witness, and so did her best friend.
They decided, that after reading her personal statement and both of our testamonies, that they would give her a second chance. But, I don't know if that works within your system, so my suggestion is to give it a try. I hope that my suggestion works out for you. Have faith, things do change.
Mulitple hugs to you and Lise.
Hugs,
Sebastian
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I am so sorry. Its enough to make me want to cry, I can't even imagine what you two must be going through right now. Its just not right.
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~C
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