back but new screen name - HELLOOOOOOO

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Registered: 09-25-2004
back but new screen name - HELLOOOOOOO
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Sat, 09-25-2004 - 11:14pm
Hellooooo Everyone

My other SN was SugarShoneypie aka Tink's chick < hee hee > remember me ?

Well I have been wanting to come back to the board and be a bit more involved. I finally

got Tink to take off the handcuff's so I could !!! < WEG >

Can you all believe I have put up with her for almost a year now ? We will be soon

celebrating our First Year Anniversary. We have many ups and downs but I love her even

more than when I first met her. Some days we look into each other's eyes all gooey mushy

lovey dovey and other days .. we both think about HoMiCide... J/K

But through it all I love my Tink so much I don't know what I would do without her in my

life.

I am a pain in the butt to live with but Tink has put up with me through it all . I have

never met anyone quite like her and no one has ever loved me like she does !!! I have

found a precious jewel. At times I do not feel I deserve to have her in my life but

she reminds me that the Love I have for her is something she has never known either. That

touches my heart and makes me want to love her more and motivates me to work harder on my

shortcomings. I think that we have both matured so much in this last year.


One of the hardest things has been to learn to be a positive support instead of being

defensive for her regarding her son. He is a good kid but he does not realize at times

all that his mother sacrifices for him. I know that he loves her dearly but as her partner

I tend to want to make him understand what he does wrong instead of stepping back and

being neutral when I need to be. However it is changing for the better because he is

trying harder and he doesnt see me as such a big threat to his relationship between his

mother and himself anymore. Today I bought him a bike and let him know its because I am

so proud of his efforts to do well in school this year and taking responsibility for

his own school work. In the past he has procrastinated and done work only if Tink YELLS

or gets upset. That would infuriate me because I couldnt really say much . I have my

moments of opening my mouth and inserting foot but I am learning patience. I am pleased

and content with my new family.

Anyways didnt mean to write a novel here but I just wanted to tell you all about our

first year together. I hope to post more with you and get to know you better. I will

try to come to chat with Tink once in a while .


so long

Snickers


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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sun, 09-26-2004 - 12:00am
Hi! I wasn't here when you were here last, but look forward to getting to know you better. Congratulations on your 1 yr anniversary! Sandra

Sandr

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Registered: 10-08-2003
Sun, 09-26-2004 - 7:55am

Welcome back Snickers. I hope we'll see you around here more often. Jump right in anywhere :) Congrats on 1 year.


Hugs!


~C

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Registered: 09-10-2004
Sun, 09-26-2004 - 11:05am

Hi snickers !


Nice to meet you, my name is Wobin ( Robin ). Congrats on one year

Robin

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 09-26-2004 - 12:08pm

Hi Snickers!