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| Mon, 09-27-2004 - 6:45pm |
I responded out of frustration, and mentioned being hurt about never hearing from her, and that I will repay the money she lent me (when my business was shut down, my earnings stopped and funds frozen) to pay for my attorney. Believe me, all of this stuff is on my mind and will be taken care of as soon as I am working, would never let it go.
She works for her mom, and that compounds the problem... my ex is so very bitter, she has wished me dead (told my sister that) and has now succeeded in getting my kids to hate me. I received that note a half hour before heading out for an interview, and hope like heck I was composed during it. Anyway, she must be very happy to have them doing this. All I can do is continue looking for work, and take care of things. As of right now, I've no family accept my mom and sister.

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Oh nelle, I am so sorry. This has to really hurt!
I have to say though, it looks like you've absolutely nailed the real driving force behind their words, in their mother. As much as it won't improve the way you feel right now... I think you know how fluid kids emotions are. It may take some time, but eventually most people come to make up their own minds... kids included.
I'm not going to even try to offer you any advice hon. You're a great person and a loving parent, they WILL
It is tough for a lot of unemployed Americans right now. I think your family should be giving you support instead of trying to tear you down.
(((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))
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(((((((((((((((Raye))))))))))))))) I wish I had something that I could offer aside from the hugs, but I've not been the most graceful with my words lately and don't want to say the wrong thing.
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I don't know the whole story, but Bitterness can make a person very mean.
I am sorry about your daughter saying such a hurtful thing to you.
I really do not know what to say. I do hope that you find a good job soon.
To bad dd and ex let money come before family and love.
Hugs and kisses,
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So true.
I got my termination notice nine months before my contract was to expire.
Kim
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You know as well as anyone you have tried and are doing your best.. ~S~ has had a time of it also finding work.. Either they don't call her or they do and get her hopes up then don't call again or they treat her oddly because I am sure of her way of looking (which is herself) but people.. a lot of them... discriminate..
I was poisoned for years by my Mom against my Dad from a young age.. It's sad it goes on.. But when I became older.. of age.. I went and sought him out and ya know? He had downfalls... things that I didn't care for.. but we all do...He also had many wonderful things about him.. A lot I have like him.... the good and not so good...
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Sandr
((((((((((((rayeellen))))))))))))
I am so sorry.
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
well, i don't really know your situation but being without a job must certainly be tough-i mean, here we are trying to make the best out of the situation, as far as we're concerned things might be manageable but other ppl have to go make things hard(er) for us... lol, it SUCKS but it happens, too often... i don't know why, there isn't a quick fix to this, but people want a quick fix... so our unemployed state, our reduced resources... don't give them... problems? Maybe because of all the expectations they have of us as to the role we ought to be playing in their lives, maybe because they think we're not falling in with the beat of their drummer, etc, etc and etc... or it's a status quo thing... how will we make them look?... unless they're in a position/have the means to help us get back to our feet (whether in the form of emotional support, knowing how things can work better, or money) often it's more about them than us...
would it help to know that you're not alone in taking career risks (as in any business venture) and/or losses, and that as long as you have your health, your intelligence, your heart, your spirit even if you may earn just 1/5 of what you used to earn before, it doesn't matter you can slowly climb back up... this is soemthing that happens to sooo many people who take chances, and nothing that anyone ought to be ashamed about. Even if you don't recoup your full salary range, it shouldn't matter as long as you're clear about what you want at this point in time, are working towards it? it shouldn't matter. you're doing your best. (((hugs))) for your hurt.
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