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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 6:45pm
I've been disowned by my daughters. My eldest emailed me last night saying she was disappointed in me for not yet working. I've literally sent out hundreds of applications, and keep right on doing so. She also chastised me for looking for "great jobs," though she knows nothing of what I've applied for, which have included several receptionist positions. I'm not being fussy at all, there is no way I can earn what I used to, and likely will make at best 1/5th of before. What hurts is that this is sent to me even though she never bothers to call... I call her, but haven't much lately because she is always busy.

I responded out of frustration, and mentioned being hurt about never hearing from her, and that I will repay the money she lent me (when my business was shut down, my earnings stopped and funds frozen) to pay for my attorney. Believe me, all of this stuff is on my mind and will be taken care of as soon as I am working, would never let it go.

She works for her mom, and that compounds the problem... my ex is so very bitter, she has wished me dead (told my sister that) and has now succeeded in getting my kids to hate me. I received that note a half hour before heading out for an interview, and hope like heck I was composed during it. Anyway, she must be very happy to have them doing this. All I can do is continue looking for work, and take care of things. As of right now, I've no family accept my mom and sister.

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Registered: 09-10-2004
In reply to: rayeellen
Mon, 09-27-2004 - 11:56pm

(((((((((((( Raye ))))))))))))


I am so sorry hunny. I have no words of wisdom for you, but please know I am here for you with lots of love and suport.


Hugs,

Robin

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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: rayeellen
Tue, 09-28-2004 - 9:14am
(((((((((rayeellen)))))))))) I'm so sorry you are going through this. Keeping my fingers crossed for you

Ting 

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Registered: 09-30-2003
In reply to: rayeellen
Tue, 09-28-2004 - 12:46pm

*raising my hand* I'll kick some butt too, Nelle! No-one messes with my Uncle Scooby and gets away with it! Let me at 'em!


Sending you giant hugs, hon....hopefully this will die the death it deserves to. You hang in there kiddo

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Registered: 10-08-2003
In reply to: rayeellen
Wed, 09-29-2004 - 9:42am

(((((((((((((((Raye))))))))))))))))) I am SO very sorry hon. I know that must hurt so much. Sending lots of love and good thoughts your way.


Hugs!


~C

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