hey y'all, how have you been?

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Registered: 08-03-2004
hey y'all, how have you been?
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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 1:44am
lots of things seem to be happening here... i've been sooo busy with work and all, sigh... i haven't been able to log onto chat cause my office comp denies all access to chat, i live in asia pacific so the there's ten hours difference or more, i think... the hours you guys chat i think i'm working, lol. so, anyways i dont have a home comp, but i'd love to come on one day... matter of getting access to one and timing.

meanwhile, i've been thinking about a career change, hate what i'm doing, took some time to admit that to myself because it's been the safer way all along--i'm pretty selfabsorbed with what and how to do next in that dept, and yeh, i hope i can make it for what i want to do next...lol... how come the life you want/you envision is so hard to come by? i don't understand...lol, i mean it's easier to get the things you don't really want to fall on your lap than the things you want, no joke...

:-((( anyways i'll come by when i can, if just to see how y'all doing...

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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 2:07am


Hey not str8, Gigi here.

I can understand how it is to come to the life that you want/envision is so hard to come by. The way that I look at it is, if everything that I wanted came to me so easy, I wouldn't appreciate them in the long run. Some hard work and patience is really worth it.

When things fall into my lap too easily, I kind of look at it funny, I guess I like things the hard way, oops, sorry! I know that you're trying to be serious, it's just that it's 2:03 in the morning, and I haven't quite gotten sleepy yet, lol! Anyway, do what you think is right, and you'll be happy with your decisions.

Take it easy.

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 2:28am
hey Gigi, how are you doing? and why are you still up on a THURSDAY morning...! lol, or is it Wednesday where you are?!... i know, yeh, i know... we do appreciate the things we work harder for... i don't know, it's been really HARD, chasing your dreams and having to support yourself, or rather getting yourself financially secure enough so you're able to chase your dreams and support yourslef...
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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 8:03am

Hi hun!


Glad you stopped by!

*hugs ~ Caly

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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 8:28am

(((((((((((not_str8)))))))))))))


If you are truly miserable with what you are doing, then I think it is time for a career change. Life is hard enough, no reason to hate what you're doing too. Good luck with whatever you decide.


Our chat room is open and available 24/7 so if you want to chat sometime other than the scheduled chat, post a note on the board saying you will be in the chat room and what time, most of the time you'll get at least a few who are available to join in.


Big hugs!


~C

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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 8:32am
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(((((((((((HUGGGS BACK CALY!!!!!!!!!!!!!))))))))))))))))))))) heehee! i didn't post there because i was afraid i was going to get lost in that thread!!!! there's 67 posts there and counting, lol!

I'll come by often, no worries, i'm not going anywhere...

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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 11:01am

Hi not-str8.

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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 6:13pm

((((((((((((( not_st8 )))))))))))))


Hi, it's great to see you again !


If your not happy where you are, then a change will be good for you. There is no reason to be unhappy. All my best of luck to you :o)


Hugs,

Robin

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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 12:46am
Hi ...not_str8... Glad you popped in.. Hope you get to as often as you like..
Yeah go for what you want... Life is meant to be happy really and you should enjoy what you do, although I know at times we do a lot we don't enjoy..
**Smiles**and ((((Hugs)))))"CAT"

 C  >^. A .

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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 3:28am
The Hug Fest thread seemed to have spilled over to here, lol... not that i'm complaining! :-) i'm not in that much pain, actually, lol... (((but thanks heaps for the hugs!))) and good to hear there's a 24/7 chat room now--i will do that, when i can.

yeh, that's right things never turn out as we envision and being grown-up isn't all it's cracked up to be, lol. but this is how it's supposed to be right?

Thanks guys, we'll talk again soon...


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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 11:19am

LOL!