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| Sat, 10-09-2004 - 11:07am |
Okay, I have pretty much established through therapy, reading, reflection, and ah . . . personal experience that I am indeed a lesbian, (even though no one else believes it.)
Here is one thing that I wonder about . . .
When gf and I go out to a place where there are a lot of lesbians (like a bar or club); I never check anyone out. I know how to check out guys, and I kind of do that without thinking about it, I'm just used to it. But I don't look around and think about other women. Is that a bad sign? I'm kind of just fixated on what I have in front of me, (my beautiful gf.)
My therapist says that it is part of the coming out process and I will notice other women in time. What do you all think? GF and I are planning on going out tonight for awhile, maybe I should conduct a science experiment? How would I go about that?
You are all my panel of experts, so fire away . . .
Love,
Scarlett

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CL-Nursepam2000 aka
Scarletter, hey! Gigi here.
I can agree with Pam about looking at other women, if I were with someone, and we were out, I would not only look at her, I would look at other babes too, hoping that my potential girlfriend isn't the jealous type and I don't have to worry about being nagged half to death about, why I was looking at other women and blah, blah, blah! So, go ahead, look, and enjoy the sights!
Hugs.
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
And if you do, don't let her know about it! lol.
I think it is a good thing that what you have in front of you is enough to keep your mind on her. That is a good thing.
Has that ever happened when out with a b/f?
Maybe you are finally satisfied with who you have.
Hugs,
Laurie
My web pages
http://homepage.mac.com/lauriedav/PhotoAlbum1.html http://hometown.aol.com/didoangst/myhomepage/photo.html
>I make sure she has a reason not to be checking out the other women.
Haaaaaaaaa!
So that was you with her head under the table last Saturday night!
My, my, my!
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
My web pages
http://homepage.mac.com/lauriedav/PhotoAlbum1.html http://hometown.aol.com/didoangst/myhomepage/photo.html
ROFLMAO!
Yeppers!
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
Nothing wrong with being happy with who your with.. and paying all your attention there, but just relax and don't worry about how one is (supppose to act) be yourself and enjoy yourself..
I like Pam's idea.. When I go out with my ~S~ we talk like that ..Well maybe not that cause ~S~ never thinks beyond me ~~So Sweet..~~ She talks about us and whatever makes me **Smile**.. I do like to people watch.. I look at the clothes styles.. The hair styles and color jobs and the shoes and The way they dance and move.. The way they move together and geez a whole lot more..
Have a great time.. Stealing one of Laurie's lines here..(
C >^. A .
Sandr
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