my update...............(could be long?)

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my update...............(could be long?)
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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 9:13pm
well hmmmm wanted to post an update,I'll try and be around more.....was a very busy day,I cut grass at my aunt's and my mom's,prepared a door at my aunt's so I can paint it tommorow and changed my gf's oil...I did other things to but well ya know......lol...I stay busy.....

the 1st part of my update would be my father moved home finally(think I posted it but well it has been crazy).Him and I have a love/hate relationship totally....I am thinking now that my mom is taken care of the sooner I move out the better.They both say it's no rush and I should stay as long as I like but well I'd like to get my own place and breathing room again.....

the 2nd part is I like my new job alot but after two weeks of working there and a paycheck I see it is not exactly the money I was hoping for.....it has benefits and such but well it is not what I hoped.I like the job and the people,they are very nice,yet I wonder if the job is really me or if I have just been tired and stressed.

I am toying with the idea of going where my dad is working and doing construction again.The plus would be it is what I love and what I do.....it is me.....

The negative would be no benefits and well....not sure if would it would last a year or three ...a bonus if I went it would be more money or I wouldn't go.....

the 3rd part...on the day my gf offically "moved out" last week...she began hurting again....her kidney stones....I took her to the ER...they told her to go to a surgeon in the next 48 hours,no more....then the next day she went and on that next day she had surgury to break up a huge kidney stone....afterwards on friday she got word that her kidney is now damaged and that if the meds she are on doesn't solve the problem more surgury...she has been out of work all week and somehow they forgot to pay her so I been paying for the meds and whatever I can......that is where my real stress comes from...I love her alot and well tonight she offically went there to live after getting better here but well my love for her is not the kind of love I should have ......AT ALL.....she doesn't deal well with grown-up issues....she is my best friend but well it basically stops there.......

These are my updates and well I'll do my best to be around for awhile.....Thanks ladies for letting me ramble and hope you all are having a good weekend.....hope to see you all in chat for a bit before bed tommorow night,Jo

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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 9:23pm
(((((((((Jo)))))))))))))) Welcome back!

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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 9:29pm

{{{{{Jo}}}}}


It's good to see you again.

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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 9:48pm

((((((((((((( Jo )))))))))))))


Great to see you ! I sure hope everything calms down soon for you, and all my best to g/f. I have to go and get my stones taken care of too, my heart goes out to her.


Hugs,

Robin

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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 10:50pm
((((((Jo)))))))) Guess we pretty much covered this post when chatting in im, except the part about changing jobs.. Yeah That can be a hard decision when you need medical and you need better pay and each is at the wrong job..I know I like my job most days (Cept the winter as I said is bad) and the pay is pretty good considering whats out there and my hours are flexible pretty much so I can move appointments here and there in my day but ...No Medical..
Come back soon as ya can Hon....
Take Care...
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Mon, 10-11-2004 - 10:28pm

(((((((((((Jo)))))))))))


Its so good to see you. I hope you can get everything sorted out for the best. Try not to be a stranger - we miss ya round here :)


Hugs!


~C