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i cant handle it!
| Sun, 10-10-2004 - 11:58pm |
i need some help. im not so sure i can handle my girl moving. she is the only one i have down here. its going to be hard being away from her that long. we will be fine, but what am i supposed to do now. she is everything to me.i love her and im going to miss her more than anything in this entire world. i dont think i can make it without her here. somebody please help me!! thanks alot, jen

Hey Jen, I sent you my addy's through your profile! Hold on! just for now you'll be ok! Just take it easy and relax.
Hugs,
Sebastian
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Sandr
That is my thoughts for the day, gracemae59
It will be hard missing your girl. I am giving you my e-mail if you feel like writing so please do not be shy. didoangst@aol.com.
You might need to stay busy with hobbies, writing, sports, or whatever you prefer. Not that it will stop you from missing someone you love, but it will help the time pass a bit more quickly.
Do you have hobbies or things that you like to do? Let me know what it is you enjoy doing.
We are here for you, you know that. I know it is not the same as being with your girl in person, but it is something to help fill the void.
I hope that you can hook up with sandra soon.
Feel free to write.
Thinking of you,
hugs,
Laurie
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Jen, the important thing
Kim
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(((((((Jen)))))))
I know it must seem like it will be forever but really it's not.
Kim has some real wisdom to share with you.
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thank you for all your help. i will still get to see her we will be fine. i am going to be busy playing softball everyday. so hopefully the time will go by fast.i cant believe she is really going though she is leaving tomorrow. i love her and i will miss her. again thank you. i like to watch movies too. thats about all my hobbies, my other hobbie is leaving for a bit!!!. thanks, jen
thanks alot. i know we will be fine, but i need your help with something else. will you help me with something creative for my girl. i mean i can be but when i cant see her i want to send her somthing that cool. thanks again, jen
((((((((((((Jen))))))))))))
This is hard, but you CAN do it.
Stock up on phone cards or make sure you both have a great long distance plan, write love letters long hand - LOTS of them, send cards, e-mail, IM, stay in touch. Long distance is hard, but it can be done. And I think that relationships really have the chance to develop so much stronger and deeper this way, once you remove the physical you will be able to concentrate more fully on the emotional. The foundation that can be built that way, can be VERY strong and deep.
While you two are apart, do things that will be beneficial to you, now and always. I saw you play softball, that is great. Keep that up. Will you be going to school? Getting an education is THE best thing that you can do for yourself, for Sandra, and for the two of you as a couple. If you and Sandra don't work out in the long run, you will need something to fall back on for yourself. And if you two DO make it (I think you can, I really do), what if something unforseeable were to happen to Sandra and she couldn't work? It would be up to you to be the bread-winner in the family and to do that with any success you will need your education. It really is the most important thing, no matter what happens in the future. There are SO many ways to go about getting a degree in something these days, it is very doable for anyone. You can get financial aid. You can take classes online. You can go to a community college and get an associates degree or specialists certificate in just about anything. You can go to a 4-year university and get a bachelors - even more options there than in a community college. You can start school having NO clue what you are interested in, by the time you get your pre-req.'s out of the way you should know. And if not, you can get a liberal arts degree which opens plenty of doors all by itself.
Good luck and big hugs! We're here for you anytime.
~C