I don't like this 'scary stage '

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Registered: 09-10-2004
I don't like this 'scary stage '
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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 2:24pm

I know from the posts I have gotten I have to go through this stage to move on from my divorce, what I didn't know is just how scary it is.


In about 3 weeks I will be living on my own for the first time in my life. I will have my own bills, my own appt., and no relationship. This is scaring the TOS out of me. It does get better, right ?


STBX is giving me all our marraige furniture, the appt is heat and hot water included, my car is there,

Robin

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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 9:36pm

It is natural to be scared, but you are brave. We know it, even if you are unsure. Others knew it about me, even if I were unsure. They were right. You will find your way. Fear not errors and mistakes, we learn and we grow. You will think much, you might write much, to yourself, to us, and we welcome you doing so. We are here to chat with, and to provide that cyber shoulder. You will adjust, and you will move on... stronger than ever.


Thank-you Nelle, I really apprieciate your words to me. I am so glad you all are here for me, there's nothing like a bunch of GF to let you know you are normal :o)


Hugs & stuff,

Robin

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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 9:38pm

Just tell your self

Robin

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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 10:00pm
Ahhhhhhhhhh Thanks (((((Robin)))))...Thats great Spring water..
(((((Huggles))))))"CAT"

 C  >^. A .

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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 10:07pm


Awwwwww, not a problem. Not wishing to be inappropriate, but we can coorespond through profiles. I'm always willing to chat with you.

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 11:13pm

Personally I cannot wait to live alone again.

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Registered: 10-08-2003
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 11:54pm

It is scary. And overwhelming. And it will probably get tougher before it gets easier. But you can make it through. I know you can.


Big hugs and lots of luck to you!


~C

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 10:42am
Now if you can't live with your sister, who can you live with. Sounds like fun to me.

I would live with my sister. I know it would be a blast!

I hope it work out wobin, weewee I do.

Hugs,

Laurie
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Registered: 09-01-2004
Wed, 10-13-2004 - 5:50pm

(((((Robin)))))


I'm here for you as your friend and as someone who is walking along a similar path.

Scarlett
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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 7:12pm

(((((( Gigi ))))))


You're not being inappropriate at all, thanks for the invite to talk. No one can too many friends or chocolate in my world !


Hugs,

Robin

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 7:17pm

(((((( Pam ))))))


I know I will be ok, I think I'm just going through a freak out stage right now. I hate change, but you're right. I will find 'Robin' again ... I hear she's not that bad of a person ;o). A bit of a nut, but lovable.


Hugs & stuff for everything,

Robin

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