I don't like this 'scary stage '

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Registered: 09-10-2004
I don't like this 'scary stage '
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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 2:24pm

I know from the posts I have gotten I have to go through this stage to move on from my divorce, what I didn't know is just how scary it is.


In about 3 weeks I will be living on my own for the first time in my life. I will have my own bills, my own appt., and no relationship. This is scaring the TOS out of me. It does get better, right ?


STBX is giving me all our marraige furniture, the appt is heat and hot water included, my car is there,

Robin

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 7:20pm

(((((( Court ))))))


Thanks for your vote of confidence. I feel like a big old baby being this scared, but I haven't had '

Robin

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 7:24pm

Living with sis didn't work out :(


Rick can only find me a 1 br that I will be able to get on short notice. So I will be alone in my own little place. Square feet mean nothing to me, it's 600 sq ft. does anyone know if that is closet space or not to bad for one person ? Plus heat & hot water come with the rent and that is $500/month and they allow kitties !!!


Hugs,

Robin

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 7:26pm

I hear you Scarlette, without y'all I would be in real ruff shape. We can do this together Scarlette :)


Believe me when I say, I loves you all !!!


Big hugs,

Robin

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 7:48pm

Apartment with 600 square feetThis is one possible lay out for a 600 Sq foot Apartment hun so I dont think thats bad at all for one person!

*hugs ~ Caly

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 8:38pm
Dang Caly.. is there nothing us girlfriends are not good at!?.. Haaa You came up with the answer for her **Snap.. just like that **
Too much!**Smiles***"CAT"

 C  >^. A .

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 8:47pm

Aww thanks Cat!


One of the skills I have developed as a CL is how to find information on things on the internet hehe


I really enjoy the "hunt" to find ways to help people if I can.

*hugs ~ Caly

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 9:31pm
I think it will be a fine place. Not huge, but fine for one person and a kitty.

It will be cozy. Plus you can buy things to help store clothes in. Trust me I have lived the barracks life. They are not to much bigger than a jail cell with bunk beds.

Let me know if you need any storage ideas when you get moved in.

Leave space for the kitty.

My e-mail is didoangst@aol.com. Feel free to write any time.

Maybe sis can sleep in the top bunk, lol.

Take care.

Hugs,

Laurie
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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 9:34pm
Wow caly, I'm ready to start decorating now. I love planning and decorating. Nice floor plan.

Hugs,

Laurie
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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 11:04pm

You are just too good to me !!!


Thanks so much Caly, it does look pretty good for me and the new kitty I will be getting.


Hugs,

Robin

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Wed, 10-13-2004 - 11:06pm

That's because Caly's all that and a bag of chips !!!


Plus she's

Robin

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