At our age, yes we do have baggage but we are not teens. We are past the childish jeolesy. (Know that is spelled wrong) We are strong on what we want and need. So why is it so hard?
Thats probably most likely why Buterfli.. Cause we do have some baggage but we also are strong on what we want and need and to find another that can accept the baggage and the needs and wants and be strong enough within themselves to beable to flow with it or with you.. Hang in Hon.. (((((Hugs)))))"CAT"
I have some saddle baggage and I have never met anyone without some kind of baggage.
I think you would have to be a robot to not have some baggage.
My g/f and I are lucky enough to be able to love each other and sometimes help each other carry the baggage when it gets to heavy.
That is one thing I am greatfull for.
I think when you meet the right person you except their baggage. Like it is the whole package. As long as it is within reason. I am not saying if a serial killer is really cute and sweet to me that I would date her. Okay maybe, but she would have to be very special, I would get to know her first and build some trust, you know, make sure I am not literaly her taste, lol.
Ok that was bad, but I think you know what I mean.
sadly,I think if you have lived at all you have baggage....it just comes down to if we find that person and are ready for the baggage they have,and have they have dealt and learned from there issues.....not wearing it as a chip,yet maybe just concurred it(sp?),anyways I replied to your other post as well....I am honest and well I am involved and 30,lol....but we can be friends,lol..... I ain't so bad,lol..... stillbuggin30@yahoo.com maybe we can share our woes???lol...good luck,she will be there when you least expect her,or should I say my gf's have been at least????have a great one and it gets better,Jo
Well Buterfli.
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Hang in Hon..
(((((Hugs)))))"CAT"
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I think you would have to be a robot to not have some baggage.
My g/f and I are lucky enough to be able to love each other and sometimes help each other carry the baggage when it gets to heavy.
That is one thing I am greatfull for.
I think when you meet the right person you except their baggage. Like it is the whole package. As long as it is within reason. I am not saying if a serial killer is really cute and sweet to me that I would date her. Okay maybe, but she would have to be very special, I would get to know her first and build some trust, you know, make sure I am not literaly her taste, lol.
Ok that was bad, but I think you know what I mean.
Just hang on sweetie, she is out there somewhere.
Hugs,
Laurie
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