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metamorphosis?
| Wed, 10-13-2004 - 5:13am |
nowadays walking down the mall or street, it's the women i check first, and i'm beginning to think that i can know another like me, if i caught her checking me out too, that same way, sort of sneakily and if caught, sort of guiltily--hehe... i think i'm going to be outed by my straight friends, pretty soon cause lol, they've caught me looking at women too many times lately when i never used to before...
hey, guys do you give off vibes, e.g a small smile, a wink, look a little longer, etc when an attractive stranger catches you looking at her? how do you normally react? or would you go red. i seem to get embarassed rather quick, like i'm not supposed to scope a woman out that way because if she's not gay, she prob won't like it.
i don't know if this is excess guilt, or whatever but when meeting new, attractive women i feel a little guilty because i'm thinking of them that way and if she's not gay, i know she prob won't want me thinking that way either. am i being overly sensitive?

I don't think you're being overly sensitive.
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
hey not str8, How are ya? nice to see ya!
Personally speaking, I love looking at different women, I just enjoy watching the different varieties. Now, if I found a woman attractive, and if she dropped something like papers or books and no one was helping her pick them up, I would help her and give her her things, and smile at her. Other than that, I would just look and smile. I have people stare at me all the time, and I really don't pay it any attention. I have a few instances where, a few women have come over to me and ask a question that they knew the answer to, and I have to sometimes make sure that I keep my hands to myself, and my comments focused to the question, of course, all the while smiling and flirting. Personally, I don't think your being over-sensitive, you're just being you.
Enjoy the sights!
Hugs,
Sebastian
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