Tough couple of days . . .

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Tough couple of days . . .
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Sat, 10-16-2004 - 4:53pm

I've been feeling a bit down the last couple of days . . .


We've had an offer on our house but it doesn't look like it's going to happen the people can't really afford it and we can't afford to come down in price, and there hasn't been a lot of activity.

Scarlett
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Sat, 10-16-2004 - 4:58pm


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Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Sat, 10-16-2004 - 5:05pm

((((((((((((( Scarlett )))))))))))))


((((((((((((( Scarlett )))))))))))))


((((((((((((( Scarlett )))))))))))))


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Sat, 10-16-2004 - 8:12pm
I offer ((((Hugs scarletter)))))and also ***I have been there's*** although it was not for a g/f I left at that time..

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 10-17-2003
Sun, 10-17-2004 - 3:53am
hey cat what the heck is a STBX ?

lol i cant think of it

ty

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Sun, 10-17-2004 - 11:16am
Soon To Be X

*hugs ~ Caly

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Sun, 10-17-2004 - 7:03pm
**Smiles** Tink Good to see ya.. It means Soon to be Ex

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 10-17-2003
Mon, 10-18-2004 - 6:03am
lol Caly i just knew i knew this .. sigh it figures .. brain freeze

ty ty

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Registered: 10-17-2003
Mon, 10-18-2004 - 6:04am
lol yeah i see that cat

ty and hey its always good to see you my dear friend

(((((((((((Cat))))))))))) you are so dear to me ... thankful you are my friend

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Mon, 10-18-2004 - 12:06pm
Scarletter,

You are not bad and or selfish. Sometimes life just throws us curve balls and we have to go with them.

I think your husband is saying things like that out of desperation for being hurt and thinking it will make you stay out of guilt. Would it be fair to stay with someone when you are in love with someone else? I don't think that would be fair to anyone because then you are miserable and not giving to the relationship what the other needs. Plus he might never trust you with friends and that could get very ugly.

Do what you feel you have to do and then accept that as part of your life. You did not ask for this to happen it just did. I wish I could help you to not feel guilty for living your life.

You deserve happiness in your life.

Take care and be true to yourself,

hugs,

Laurie
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Mon, 10-18-2004 - 2:02pm
"Sometimes I think that maybe my stbx husband is right; I am a selfish bad person who doesn't care about anyone but herself."

That is EXACTLY what my NOW ex said to me...EXACTLY...and you know what? If allowing myself to be happy is selfish, if doing something for ME for a change is selfish, if not wanting to spend the rest of my life hating it is selfish, if being honest is selfish...then ya know what? I'm a selfish person...but a real HAPPY one!!!!

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