I caved and it only got worse
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I caved and it only got worse
| Tue, 10-19-2004 - 5:26pm |
well as a few of you know i was debating whether to answer her calls and of course i caved... i love her so much how could i not. She left a message requesting to see my son on thursday at the end of the message she said she loved him and me. So i called her back and all I said was i didn't think it was a good idea until she had her things straightened out... that's all i said really and she hung up on me and now it just hurts so bad and i can't make the tears stop... i tried calling her back and she had the other girl (who she cheated on me with in the past) tell me she is busy. What did i do to deserve this..........
Trying so hard to hang on,
M

Well you told her what you were feeling. If she just hung up on you like that, then that goes to show you that she's not worth the love that your willing to share with her on a committed basis. You didn't do anything to deserve this, you're not responsible for someone else's behavior or actions. They have to take a look at themselves, for some reason she's running scared. Just leave her alone, and let her make up her mind as to what she wants to do.
And, that's all you can do. Go ahead and cry, and come here and "talk" about it. Don't hold it in, or it will hurt you in the long run.
Hugs!
Hugs,
Sebastian
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I am so sorry (((((Hon))))))..
You do not deserve to be treated in
C >^. A .
She is cheating on you. She must be afraid to commit to one person at least for now.
You will have to figure out if she comes back, can you deal with her cheating or not.
It might be something that she does for a need to know she is wanted or it might be she just isn't as ready as she thought to commit.
The way I say it, you can leave the door open and been in a relationship that is not commitment ready and you could date as well, (In my oppinion it would have to work both ways.)
Or you could decide this is not for you at all and cry and grieve then move on.
Or you could do a little of both, lol.
I know you are hurting right now and I am so sorry for that. I wish that I could give you a real in life hug.
Keep us posted and please stay with us Baby.
Hugs,
Laurie
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(((((( M ))))))
I am so sorry she did that to you, you didn't deserve it for being honest. Hang in there hunny, we are here for you. How is your son doing with all this going on ?
Many tight hugs,
Robin
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