Friends & Girlfriends

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Friends & Girlfriends
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Mon, 10-25-2004 - 11:56pm
As you all know, I am in my first lesbian relationship. I am 100% in love with Jen. Lately, I have been trying to make friends with people like myself but I feel a little guilty because I don't want Jen to get mad/jealous. We discussed it tonight, and although she says it's ok and fine, I get the feeling she is insecure about it. I guess I should just take her at her word.

In an opposite sex relationship, men don't get jealous over female friends. Now everything has changed. So am I supposed to make friends with men now? I can't even stand most men...that's a topic for another day. I have become anti-male since I came out, I didn't want that to happen, it's just how I feel.

I began emailing a wonderful woman I met online, I thought we had alot in common and could be friends, apparently that isn't possible. So, since I am in a relationship is contact with other women considered a no-no?

What's the rule? Does anyone have their lesbian handbook out.....if so, please let me know what it says!

Sandra

Sandr

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 9:32pm
hehe... i can imagine why you think that...

i don't have anything to share at the moment, but i will when that happens...

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