Giggling schoolgirls?
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| Tue, 10-26-2004 - 3:52pm |
I am in a training class for a position with the state. When hired, I told the interviewer (my supervisor was one of the interviewers, a woman who was retired was assisting her) that I was a transsexual. Our class is training in an adjacent building to where we will work, and we are now... 12 days into training. Today my supervisor asked to see me, and she outlined how there are rumours circulating about me. She was an absolute sweetheart, and was very upset with this happening, that I was one of the ones she insisted on hiring, and she does not wish me to leave. She told me they were calling a meeting to tell everyone it was none of their business, and I would assume remind them of what being professional means and what state regulations are. She also told me that if anyone gives me a hard time to let her know, because it is discrimination.
Wow. I don't wish to be the cause of problems, just wish to do my work, be a good person and colleague, and the only way to win them over is to do and be just that.
How they know is uncertain... the only way people can tell usually is by my voice, if power is required behind it it will give me away. There are 5 women and 2 men in my class, and of all of us... one guy is from the department where this started, and they were having him take this class... there was something about his attitude that seemed off, though I could not put my finger on it... how he interacted with our trainer, his insistence on breaks, etc... like an institutionalised employee. Where I come from, there was no such thing as breaks, though when working for myself worked late and took breaks when I felt the need.
I talked with the women in my training class, explained what was happening, they were all wonderful... spoke with the trainer and she wanted to choke someone. So while this is only speculation, speculation I'll only share with friends, family, or in this way... this is a shining example of how some guys are so damn immature about human sexuality, it's like they've never gotten past 16. And to think there is a stereotype of giggling schoolgirls... I submit that there are giggling grown men out there as well.
Edited 10/26/2004 3:56 pm ET ET by rayeellen

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And I love your attitude! If only we all withheld judgement until we've a reason to have an opinion, this world would be a better place.
i wanna be friends... hey, raye... ummm, what do you mean you're a transsexual? you were a guy before? Or are you in the process of becoming one? if i seem dumb, sorry, i'm just so surprised...<<
rofl.... no need to apoligise. I was born physically male, simply a birth defect that is going to be corrected. Had I not lost my business, that correction would have been 6 December, or... 37 days from now.
I love that pic!
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*hugs* back!
Edited 10/30/2004 11:14 pm ET ET by rayeellen
I hope the people at work are treating you well. Some people are just so ignorant.
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