December 2nd.....

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Registered: 03-25-2003
December 2nd.....
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Thu, 10-28-2004 - 10:02pm
Man I wish this board had an "unsure" icon. Two major events will be happening on that day (for my family, anyway).

Little sis turnes 21 and little brother gets released.

My brother is where I feel uncertain. I don't know what to expect when I see him again after a year. This was his first time serving hard time, so whether it changed him for the good or for the bad, I dunno yet. I also don't know what to do when (and I mean when, not if) he asks for a place to stay. I'm torn, I'm conflicted, I'm at odds - how many ways can I say the same thing????? lol. Guess I've got a month to get ready to cross that bridge.

On a lighter note, sis called the other night, she'll be here for her b-day *yay*. I was surprised at first, thinking she would rather spend it with her friends in Fla. But then she reminded me of a conversation we had several months ago where I said I was going to take her to a gay bar for her big 21. At the time she merely replied "whatever", so I figured she took it as a joke. Well, apparently she's gung-ho and ready to go! Little sis's first experience in a huge dyke bar *giggling* just thinking about it.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 10:18pm
Emotion was optional Sadie. I am so glad for you in more ways than one. Your younger sister sounds like a pistol and hanging onto every word her older sister says. IMO, this is good. She is one child who has someone to look up to. Not many children do. As for your brother, I have mixed emotions.He could change his life or be gay. LOL, neither is bad, just hope he stays straight and on the narrow. Good luck with your family, it's sound so much like mine, LOL. Things will turn out for the best at one point in your life.
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Registered: 09-10-2004
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 12:53am

(((((( Beth ))))))


Your sis sounds like a hoot ! You have to update us after your night out.


As for your Bro, I am sending you both many angels of peace & calmness. I would, IMHO, give him a chance. Who knows, maybe he learned his lesson after the hard time.


Many tight squeezy hugs,

Robin

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Fri, 10-29-2004 - 10:01am

(((((((Beth)))))))


I have one word for you Beth:

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 10:45pm
Wow Beth... how nice for you and Sis.. Thats cool!..Or should I say coo.. Haa It's a joke in those that know me.. They all say I say cool.. pool.. and anything realted to that sound, with coo.. poo... and so on and so on..Any How..I am sure you will both have a blast!..
As for brother.. I understand how you must be feeling ...but darn if Pam doesn't come up with the wisedom huh?.. I mean I didn't even have that get to my mind ~yet~ maybe might not have..LOL..
It does make sense though...
(((((Hugs)))))Hon "CAT"

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 11:44pm
Yes, little sis is an effervescent pistol who hangs on my each and every word. ~sigh, to go back to that age (okay, so I'm only 30, but 21 sure sounds alot better than where I'm at now - long story, y'all know some of it ;^) ).

As for Eddie, yeah, that's going to be the hardest thing.....but I know he'll understand my reasonings (which almost makes it harder, since I can't get mad at him for *not* throwing a stink about it) aieeeee, that's another toughie to explain.....

oh well, whatever.

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