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confused and hurting
| Sat, 10-30-2004 - 2:09pm |
I know that there is no magic formula or anything, but I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on where can I find a woman who is actually interested in a commitment? It seems so hard to find someone who is mature enough to handle it. So many couples that I know say they are commited to each other one day and then to find out not too long after one of them has already moved on with someone else. It just seems that there are so many women who seem to treasure their relationship one moment and then the next breath are out cheating on their partner. I realize that this is not true of everyone, but it seems so difficult to find someone who wants to honor a commitment.
My other problem is that I am in love with someone who is not available and I know this can only be destructive to myself, but I'm finding it hard to move on because it seems as if no one compares to her. We have never even dated, but have had a friendship w for several years. I'm hurting because in my heart I really want to be with her, but it cannot be. Does anyone have any suggestions or thoughts for me??? I need to move on, but just can't seem to find the same feelings for anyone else. Thanks ahead of time for any input!

Hi Starsfall.
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
I know it's not easy to do these things, but if ya can find a way to just enjoy life, think one day you will find inner peace and contentment in all phases of life.
*hugs*
Hugs, Sandra
Sandr
Thanks for all the replies and advice. I agree that the best relationships happen when you are not looking, but that's thing, I am not actively looking. It just seems that when some happens to cross my path that I'm interested in, she's either involved with someone else or not able to not interested in having a real relationship. It seems that all the girlfriends I have had in the past were so fickle with their feelings, one day I was the love of their life and the next they had moved on to someone else.