OH what a beautiful morning!!(love news)

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OH what a beautiful morning!!(love news)
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Mon, 11-08-2004 - 7:38pm
I have no Monday moans,lol...

After a weekend of working on seeing my crush I finally got to last night....

In case you don't know the details I can fill you on(may take a few ,lol)...

The 1st time I say her I was still a pizza delivery driver and she was a waitress.I was sweeping the floor and well she walked by and said "excuse me".I looked up,grinned and said "it's ok".....

She would exit out area sometimes at night and sometimes the door the waitresses generally use.After a good while ,she was off work in her car,in the lot,waiting on friends....dumb me says the 1st thing that pops into my head ...Hollars(a word we use in the south,lol)..." You Live Here Don't ya??" She replied....Yep,or something and said something else,not sure I recall what though,lol...

The next night she was kind of busy so at one point she saw me and said "you live here don't ya???lol"....(hey she has a sense of humor and remebers me,lol)....One night she asked me for a light and followed me to my car so I could grab it....she thanked me,the next night I took her a lighter...she was like "ohhh!"....one night I gave her a vanilla cigarette...the next night she came into the delivery part to tell me she liked it,thank you.....these to me are good signs.

Well finally last night her car was there...me and my friend went to have a drink at the bar...she met me coming out of bar area and going back to her section of tables.I put my head down and acted as if I hadn't seen her.A little while later she walked by and put her hand on my back and kept walked,turning to grin....I called out "hi,how are you?"She was busy and went on her way...(man that smile)(it feels great to see someone again where everytime they see you they smile....and they make you smile...or beam in this case)...So later she comes back around and well I was looking right towards her,if she didn't speak I was going to...She walked up..."I asked how long she has been working there and why?"She tells me how it is more money and I mentioned my new job was too...she asked me where I working,I told her and she said oh?Not sure if she hasn't heard of the company or was maybe surprised that was my new job....She touched my arm at least once....it went numb,lol.....She said "I'll be back to talk to you in a few"....my friend says how she is straight and I reply and honestly mean that well that's ok,I would love to just be her friend.....I can't say she wants me...not like I have known other people were attracted to me..I think she is straight and curious.I would guess she is maybe 22,I know she is in college....not to much to go on.I just want to enjoy this and maybe find out if possible....She didn't come back to talk to me....We looked for her as we were leaving.I got up at 4am to go to work today so I couldn't stay out very long...we were there for 2 hours talking about her and my ex and what I should do...basically..My friend said she was cute before and last night had changed her mind to beautiful.....She seated us once at our old job and smiled at me so heard.The same friend was with me then and said well she must be digging you she wasn't smiling at me....it kind of bothered me a little,we left and I saw her thru the wind(they were tinted ,But I think is was her)sitting down smoking...regardless I had a buzz off a few drinks and was happy so my friend and myself decided to compose her a note for her car together..I had to re-write it like five times trying to use my best handwriting,lol....( I am such a jr. high student,lol)...it said "Tried to say bye to you but you were busy.Was a pleasant surprising seeing you tonight(that was my idea,lol).Maybe I'll see ya this weekend.Take care,Johanna...."then I put "The 'you live here don't ya' girl " and put a simley face,lol.....I don't read people well so I have no clue,what do you ladies think????well I will enjoy the ride regardless,lol...have a great one ladies.I am just waiting on the weekend,lol....Take care everyone and (((((hugs))))),Jo

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Mon, 11-08-2004 - 9:33pm
Well, no matter what happens she is making you so happy now...like you said, enjoy the ride! Keep in mind, lots of women live "straight" for a long time, including myself, and then find out they aren't straight after all. Have fun! Sandra

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Mon, 11-08-2004 - 10:13pm
Fingers are all crossed for ya!
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Mon, 11-08-2004 - 10:28pm
No harm in trying and ya never know, she may want to proceed further after getting to know you better..
Sounds like an exciting fun rush anyhow while all this is going on.. Enjoy it and am keeping positive thoughts for ya.. Sounds a like

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Tue, 11-09-2004 - 3:45am

*Grinning for you*


Jo, this is so sweet. I can hear the pleasure in your voice thru your written words and I'm really, really pleased for you. Straight or gay, you'll soon find out. Either way, she sounds like she has the potential to be a lovely friend... no better place to start a relationship from ;)


Enjoy yourself!
*hugs* ~ Nony

 

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Tue, 11-09-2004 - 4:22am
Thanks everyone ((())),well it is way too early for me,lol.....I will post more later,off to work I go again,lol.....*groans*...lol...have a great one and thanks,Jo