Laurie~**Smiles**

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Sat, 11-13-2004 - 1:50am
You seemed to be posting here and there where I was and I did do as you suggested and go back after at im...

 C  >^. A .

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Sat, 11-13-2004 - 11:16pm
LOL RJ,

Hahahaha you could always meet her to see how it goes, then if she won't shut up you could tie that string around her neck and make a break for it!

I'd go for the Honda Element of the $17,000 price. You could always add bells and whistles later. Of course you could always have it to look forward to after you get your new job with your new degree.

BTW, It does not matter that she has things that you don't like the car and the degree.

You have a wonderful personality and sense of humor.

Don't compare yourself to others in that way. It could just make things interesting.

You can't decide on attraction or interest by a phone call I wouldn't think.

Maybe she was just nervous. Just a nervous Chatty Cathy. With a convenient cord to shut her up with. That would be a nice option.

Hugs,
Laurie

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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 10:59am
Well even if you dont end up being attracted to her, if she has a large circle of gay friends, you may meet someone thru her.

*hugs ~ Caly

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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 1:25pm
Caly, I agree with you completely - I thought the same thing when I read RJ's post - this will be a step in a good direction for you (RJ) You will make some great friends, and possible meet the right woman! I am excited for you!!!! Sandra

Sandr

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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 4:28pm
We met. She told me in email that she was prissy. Well, compared to me, she makes me look like Scarlet O'Hara. Prissy? Yeah, right.

From now on, I'm going with my gut. I had the feeling that we had nothing in common and I was right. Plus, she annoys me a bit. I tried to strike up an intelligent conversation and all she wants to do is make fun of what I do for a living. I know that humor is important, but I found her sense of humor lacking. Her laugh was awful! She seemed so silly.

She seems nice and okay. But, I have no interest in her. Plus, after our meeting, I felt so not gay. I mean, I've lost my libdo. I could care less about women (at the moment). She's turning me straight! LOL

I don't know-maybe I have unrealistic expectations. I thought that I had an attraction to Lucy and Kathy. Those were two big crushes for me. I thought that I was gay. But, maybe I'm not.

She emailed me about the meeting. I was thinking that she felt like I did, because face it, I spent probably 5 minutes with her and I hit the door with an excuse. Not! She says in her email that she thought I was so cute. And, that she wanted to fold me up and put me in her pocket to take home. So, now I must gracefully and tactfully exit this. :(

Well, I'm probably driving you nuts. Thanks!

rj

rj

Franco Harris of the Pittsburgh Steelers in 197

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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 4:34pm
Hey Caly,

You are right she could introduce me to new people. But, we have so little in common that I'm trying to figure out how this will happen.

Thanks,

rj

rj

Franco Harris of the Pittsburgh Steelers in 197

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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 4:37pm
:) Hello CAT!

BTW, you've read Email Part 2 in this post. Thanks for your support!

rj

rj

Franco Harris of the Pittsburgh Steelers in 197

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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 4:54pm
Hi(((((RJ))))))...I think I get what your hinting at..**Wink**
(((((Hugs)))))"CAT"

 C  >^. A .

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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 4:55pm
what do u look for in a person? where are you looking? dont get so discouraged! I like you and I barely know you! so that girl isnt the one, there are zillions more to choose from.
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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 5:02pm
Sorry RJ, I am proud of you for trying. Hugs, Sandra

Sandr

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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 5:17pm
Hey,

There aren't many places to look. I met this lady on PlanetOut. But, locally I have two choices; the gay church, which is made up of mostly couples and the local gay bar, which has a bad reputation.

To give you a list of qualities of what I'm looking for in a person, I find difficult to do. I could give you the basics, like honesty, integrity, and moral virtue. However, I really don't think that describes what I want. Because, in most people's minds, they are all those and more. Most think that they are moral and honest.

I've had many attractions to many different types of women. Most of those women have little in common except one thing--most except two were heterosexual and ALL of them look heterosexual. In other words, if you saw any of them in a grocery store, and we'll pretend they were all gay, you wouldn't automatically think they were gay.

This lady I met today is a nice person. But, she said she was prissy. When I think of prissy, I think of a woman who likes to wear makeup, spends much time on her hair, and dresses very feminine. This lady was wearing a guy's watch and sweater. There's nothing wrong with that, but I don't find that attractive. To me, if I had to place her in a category, I would say she was soft butch, which is too butch for me. Besides her dressing, her connection with me was lacking. I felt no connection at all with her.

Hope that answers all your questions. And, thanks for complimenting me.

Take care,

rj

rj

Franco Harris of the Pittsburgh Steelers in 197