The REAL Butch Femme Poll. Where do ...

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The REAL Butch Femme Poll. Where do ...
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Mon, 11-15-2004 - 12:33am

The REAL Butch Femme Poll. Where do you stand in the Great Role Debate?



  • I am definitely Butch
  • I'm completely Femme
  • I don't identify as butch or femme
  • I think I'm a soft butch
  • I think of myself as androgynous
  • I think that I'm just Me!
  • I think of myself as a Boi
  • I'm a Tomboy
  • Don't ask this stupid question again please
  • You left something out. I'll post it in the thread for you.


You will be able to change your vote.


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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 11:33am

Cute poll. Definitely missing a few things here. There are all kinds of femmes (High Femmes, Stone Femmes, Pillow Princess Femmes) all kinds of Butches (Stone butch, Female Id'd butch, Male Id'd butch, Bois, etc) so its not easy answering a poll like this.

Myself, Im a High Femme - I dress up alot, I do wear jeans all the time, but they are worn with stilettos and yes, I wear makeup everyday and yes, my nails are always done (once a week for mani and pedi) - but being Femme isnt JUST the outside.

By no means am I passive or submissive in bed. Im the most dominating/toppy-ish person - while I do have my moments where I am not, Im incredibly agressive in bed. I am never helpless - Im independent and intelligent and make things happen for myself. If its broken, I'll do my best to fix it - (except for cars cause I dont know a thing about em..but thats what you have AAA and a good mechanic for) I have always been bringin home the bacon and dont depend on anyone for anything. *Do not mistake this for an inability to have someone else do for me, what Im saying is im always independent.

All the years Ive known I was gay (many years) - Ive always been of the Butch-Femme dynamic. Such a beautiful balance between the two that fulfills everything that I want and need in my life. It works for me, might not for others..but thats all good.

I know the poll was done in fun and I dont want to bring the mood down by this post, but it definitely takes more than wearing flannel and carpenter pants to make you Butch.

My .02

Alisha

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 11:39am
WOW alisha, I bet you turn heads!
Mandi
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Registered: 06-24-2003
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 1:43pm
you are to cute gigi!
Steaming breast would certainly heat things up more. Lol
Hugs,
Laurie

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 3:29pm

LOLOLOLOLOLOL!

 


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Sebastian


 


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Registered: 09-29-2003
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 8:45pm

HeeHee ~~Are ya saying you were getting a bit moist gigi?.. Haaa.. Under that helmet that is?.
**Smiles** and **Winks**"CAT"


 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 8:51pm

Yeah Breastplate would have conjured up some more heat


 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 9:00pm
Alisha!! Wonderful to see ya post!.
How ya doing and your sweet

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 10:32pm

LOL Alisha!

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 11:09pm

>>>>Are ya saying you were getting a bit moist Gigi?....Under the helmet that is?<<<<<

Well, not only there, but under the breastplate, the helmet, the metal pants, uh... should I go on?

Smile and Winks back.

 


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Sebastian


 


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Registered: 02-15-2004
Wed, 11-17-2004 - 11:12pm

BLUSH!

 


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Sebastian


 


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