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OK, need major help here...
| Thu, 11-25-2004 - 12:24am |
My ex of over a year called me today. We were together for over 2 years. Half of that was very good. She chose alcohol. She is up north here tomorrow until Dec. 1st. She sounded very sober when we spoke. She wants to spend time with me. My problem, do I let her into my life for this short time. Without the alcohol, I luv her very much. Sex would be great after a year but do I surcome to my desire. It has been so long. I can't believe I am asking for help at my age. Adult wise, I should not let her into my life, but length wise in the sex problem I want her so bad. Oh my god, I am so lost when I thought I had control of my life. Any help ASAP would be soooo helpful.

Well, if it were me, I would sit down, talk with her, and if she sounded like she had all of her marbles, then fine. But, I think you should find out what she wanted. Of course, I'm all for the sex part, weg, but that's up to you. Personally, I haven't had sex in 4 years, and I'm pretty sure, there are other ladies, that have been without it for longer than me. But you use your best judgement. But I know what I would do, I would jump her bones first, then talk later! LOLOLOL!
Hugs,
Sebastian
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Hi there!
Ok heres my 2 cents... Like Gigi, I think you need to sit down with her first and have a long talk. Find out where her head is at and if she has truly given up the alcohol.
*hugs ~ Caly
Hi Butterfli...
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This is a decision that only you can make.
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I don't see anything wrong with meeting her and spending some time with her. But, I would remind myself of how wrong the relationship was in the past. And, I would be careful in making any rash moves. If she hasn't changed, then what you experienced before will be experienced again. Sex isn't everything. I personally think I would prefer making love verses sex.
Happy Thanksgiving!
rj
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Let us know how it goes.
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