I saw sweetfeets tonight!

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I saw sweetfeets tonight!
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Sat, 11-27-2004 - 2:03am

I spoke with him briefly last night to tell him happy turkey day. He got to thank Grandmollie (nursemom) for the military calendar she sent him, then his dad broke in and said he needed to finish cleaning, if I wanted to come by it would have to be Friday night. It's the first invitation I've gotten while sweetfeets was there since before I visited Lynchburg over a month ago. He woke up sick this morning b/c he apparently only takes his (anxiety) meds at school, and he's been out this whole week so I assume it's that.


Anyway, I actually owe his dad $$ and he doesn't like to wait for it, no matter how small the amount. So, I cashed my check and went out to see my little man (not so little anymore but always will be my baby).

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Sun, 11-28-2004 - 11:31pm
(((Court)))) hugs back atcha!

beth

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Sun, 11-28-2004 - 11:34pm
Both.

beth

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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 12:10am
Hi Beth!
Maybe all you need to do is watch a video with the EX now and then.
Not really prostitution is it? lol. I mean it is just a movie.
He probably doesn't have the kids there because he wants it to be like a date night.
If you can get along it sure helps for important family things during school, weddings etc.
I hope things can work positively for all involved.
Take care. I plan to make some phone calls this week since the past one was a holiday.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 12:16am
Yeah, but I'm slowly realizing that I can't do it. Sure, I could've listened to sis and mom and all of my friends, but for some reason I thought maybe.....I'm feeling even lower than ever b/c of this, like refusing to be with him means that I am incapable of going the extra mile (so to speak) to be with my child....I don't think I'm worth the effort Laurie.

beth

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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 2:09am
Beth,
I don't understand...
what are you saying?
Hugs,
Laurie

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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 8:34am

I was feeling low last night, and I'm still feeling low this morning (so much so that I'm thinking of calling in).


I'm slowly realizing that I cannot go back to his dad, even if it means not seeing my son for however long...kind of feel like what you mentioned (a prostitute), therefor I feel like I AM abandoning him in a way - not doing whatever it takes and all...It just hurts. And I don't know how to make it better.


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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 9:21am

(((((((Beth)))))))


Sometimes we have to do things for the greater good.

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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 9:24am

Beth,

Kim
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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 12:06pm

>>On what grounds then, can your ex show cause to deny you visitation?

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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 4:05pm
(((((Sadie)))))
I grew up as a child of divorced parents. I will tell you it is not best to stay together for the kids. Children feel the tension and it is very hard on the kids to be in that environment. Both of my parents realized that. I think more people are seeing that too.
Be true to your self.
You are not abandoning your child. I know you will feel low at times, but don't beat yourself up for doing something that needs to be done.
hugs,
Laurie
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