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| Sun, 12-05-2004 - 3:23am |
I am currently trying to figure out where i fit in with the whole butch femme thing. I have never used labels for myself and was pretty annoyed with the whole thing until I figured out months ago that it came from homophobia that I internalized. I am attracted to "butch" women. But that does not always mean just the way they look.
If I am making any sense:)
does anyone know what i mean?
ladygold

Hello ladygold, my name is Gigi. And I am a butch. Now I don't have a picture of myself to show, because for one, I don't have a scanner, for two, I'm a bit shy.
I really don't know what a butch woman looks like, I just look like me. And I have a masculine appearance. There are some lesbians that look masculine, but are very feminine.
I've been told by many people that didn't know me, they thought that I was a man, but after realizing that I have breasts and hearing my voice, they suddenly become embarrassed and quickly appologize. Of course, upon their apology, I begin to laugh and tell them that's it's ok, that I get that type of reaction all of the time.
But sometimes there are guys that say, "what's up brother?" and I say in return, "not much, hoss!" Now, they have one of two reactions one, they stop in their tracks, look a little closer, or the laugh and apologize, and not to mention the women do the same thing, except all of a sudden they become very flirtatious or become shocked when they hear my voice. At which time, I either flirt back or laugh and blush. So, I know for myself, it all depends on the situation and the people I come into contact with. I hope that that helps, if not then, I'm sorry.
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
Hi again Ladygold!
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
Haaaaaa gigi you and ~S` have that in common.. She oft times gets called sonny or sir or guy or dude..... Haaa.. At times it's funny cause when she speaks she can speak deep(more her norm)
C >^. A .
Oh my, are we starting again? Now you really have me blushing!
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
**Smiling at cha***"CAT"
C >^. A .
Thanks for all of your takes on the femme/butch discussion:)
I feel like I'm comming out all over again, trying to work out what was real or just something I told myself.
I have always been happy being me and didn't really think about other ways of being
not to late I guess:)
You are very welcome, I do hope I have helped.
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce