Back for a moment....

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Back for a moment....
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Sun, 12-05-2004 - 12:53pm
Hi everyone, some of the new people may not recognize me as I have been gone a few months, but I am just stopping in to say hi to a few of my friends I've made, and hopefully will make more in the future when things are better. Within two months, I've lost my father, and my older brother. My brother died early last month. My brother's viewing was supposed to be closed casket, but even the day before, I had the lady that ran the funeral home let me go in the back to see him, before any repair work or cosmetics were done to him-I had to know it was him. I looked at him- all over, I rubbed his arm, hard as steel, and told him he was the lucky one, but no tears. Then finally on funeral day, my mother in tears, we brought a peice of fabric with us-black, matched his hair and suit, so I went in before everyone else and covered the part of his head and face that were smashed in, the rest covered by the pillow he laid on. We took the bag with his cracked open helmet and bloody clothes and shoes home, and what he had on him-belongings. I didn't cry at my father's either; I greive on the inside. I get my family through it. I deal with myself later. Part of me doesn't even know how to greive in such a way to get over it. I feel so lost.
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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 1:07pm

Hello snowshoe, {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{snowshoe}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}. My name is Gigi, I'm glad to meet you. I am very sorry for your losses, I'm still grieving over the loss of my dad, and girlfriend. My dad, died of cancer of the layrnx and 3 years ago, today, my girlfriend was killed, right next to me in an automobile accident. I still feel a little sad, because I did love her. Hold on, it does get better and keep coming back.

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 1:11pm

Oh {{{{{{{{{{{{Snow}}}}}}}}}}}}


I am so, so terribly sorry.

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 3:02pm
Hi Snow,
I cannot imagine going through such major losses at one time the way you have.
I know there is nothing I can say that would be comforting enough at a time like this.
I am thinking of you and hope that you will maintain that inner strength that has gotten you through this so far.
I am sorry that you have suffered such great losses and all in only two months.
Hugs,
Laurie

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 6:49pm
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Registered: 09-29-2003
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 7:18pm
((((((((Snow))))))))) It's me "CAT" ...So very sorry Hon about the losses you and your family have been through.. I wondered where you went.. Lost track of you and your e-mail..
I understand about your being the strong one in the family.. My partner ~S~ is like that.. It's hard to let go and cry..I also have

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 8:07pm
Big hugs ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((snowshoe))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

rj


"Go Tarheels!"

rj

Franco Harris of the Pittsburgh Steelers in 197

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Registered: 10-01-2003
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 12:28am

(((((((((( Snowshoe ))))))))))


Many, many hugs~~ Nony

 

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 5:48pm
Hey Cat, missed you. Would like to email again, how did we do that last time without broadcasting email addresses to the world? No, I am no longer with my last g/f, but we are still friends, she says she still feels strongly towards me, but I don't know which way is up with that, the break up just totally destroyed me, then my father died, then my brother, and my father and I ended on bad terms. It's just a mess. I am to the point I am just ready to quit, I am fed up.
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Registered: 09-29-2003
Tue, 12-07-2004 - 12:22am
(((((Hey Snow))))) Here's my addy again.. Brightietwoeyes@yahoo.com .. You can e-mail me again..
I understand Hon how your feeling so down.. Thats understandable with all you have been through..
Glad your back..
(((((((Hugs)))))))"CAT"

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 12-07-2004 - 11:32pm
I'm am so sorry you had to go thru this. Just think of the best of both your father and brother. IMO, they are in a better place and all their problems are wiped out. HUGE HUGSo you and think of the best times.