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break up advice
| Mon, 12-06-2004 - 3:19pm |
My girlfriend of 4 months broke up with me last night-It was actually mutual, but she initiated it. I think we both saw it coming. She left then called later to say that she wasn't sure and she might be making a mistake. I feel like I am in limbo with no one to talk to. This is my first relationship with a woman. She sounds like she may want to get back together and try to work things out, but is this a good idea for either of us?

{{{{{{{{{{chablis97}}}}}}}}}}. Hello chablis97, and welcome to Lesbian Life. Well, if it was a mutual thing for the two of you to break up, then why play games? I've been told that there are more women that want to meet me. I know it hurts, but heal, and move on. But, please come back and share how you're doing.
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
Hi Chablis and Welcome to LL.
CL-Nursepam2000 aka
Hope you come back and fill us in more.. Do hope you can sort through and get some answers for you and she also for herself..
Again welcome...
**Smiles**"CAT"
C >^. A .
I had the "mutual" break up myself and it hurt like hell:( I thought it would hurt less,
wrong wrong....
I'm new here to, and everyone has been pretty nice to me so I'm sure you will make good friends:)
I had a really bad breakup a couple of yrs ago and what helped me (after the crying and ice cream of course)was to take time to figure out what i wanted out of life.
just an idea:)
p.s. I don't know your exact situation so if you should get back together does depend on the situation but i'll tell you what I tell myself and my friends.
wait until your over the break up to try again, and i mean no crying and feel good about it, during the time after one people usually become lonely and forget why there was a breakup anyway.
good luck
Hey I am uncertain of the circumstances of your break-up but well it was mutual?
I know from my own experience because I too just had a break up,is that it is easy,very easy anytime to go back to something that you know....and espically this time of year...no one wants to be alone during the holidays...but more importantly as said ,your circumstances are unknown......was it a happy relationship and such?good luck ...feel free to share here ,you are among friends...have a great one and take care,Jo