Udate, Sheila's father...

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Udate, Sheila's father...
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Wed, 12-22-2004 - 10:37pm
We are in Elkhart, Indiana. We are staying in a Signature Inn. Four of our dogs are boarded at our local kennel. The puppy is here with us. Sheila's Mom and Dad wanted us to bring her.
A couple of days ago Sheila's Dad took a turn for the worse. They had to do emergency surgery and amputate his other leg above the knee yesterday evening. Most of the family will all be here tomorrow.
He is awake and alert and say's he is not in near as much pain as he was before the amputation. At his age and with his heart problems the doctors said he should not even get his hopes up to walk again. They think he can learn to get around with a scooter and just relax and begin a new way of life. He seems to be accepting this and is finally eating and asking what foods are best for him to stay alive. He held the puppy and petted her for a long time. He was very happy to see her and hold her. (The hospital allows pets to visit as it seems to help people's moods etc.)
Before this all happened I was working on a huge video taping and editing project. The woman I was hired by recomended me to our comedy club as she heard they need help working on a huge taping and editing project that will be on going through 2005 for the comedy clubs two clubs celebrating their 25th anniversary. The General manager called me the other night and asked if I would be willing to do the job. I said yes and she then asked why I have not been doing comedy for so long. Finally it all ended up that I will be doing a lot of MC work for the 2 clubs here in the city. They have not been having any luck with the new upcoming comedians. They cannot seem to get the MC thing down and all want to start as feature acts. (Yeah right!) And the general manager said they all stink and think they are the next Lenny Bruce. Geeze!
So when we get back home after being here until Friday and then to my sister's in Cincinnati Ohio, I will be doing both comedy and video taping and editing, and it looks like I have a good chance for my grant to start a small production company for making film documenteries.
I am excited about all of this!!
I am excited that Sheila's Dad is going to survive this amputation.
Sheila and I took some Christmas decorations up to his room today and decorated it. He really liked it and started talking about getting through therapy and going home.
We have decided to stay in a pet friendly hotel at my sister's since we have not had a vacation away from home without responsibilities for a few years.
Tomorrow, we get to sleep in and then go out for breakfast since we don't have to meet family at the hospital untill noon.
Sheila's spirits are up since visiting with her dad after the amputation.
I hope everyone is having a good week as I am sure you are all busy.
Happy Holidays to all who will be celebrating! I have missed you all so much!
Hugs,
Laurie
Laurie

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Thu, 12-23-2004 - 1:34am
Wow Laurie ((((((Hugs to you and Sheila))))))).. Thanks for letting us know how things are going..
I am glad Sheila's Dad came through so well and that he is in positive spirits..It's those angels... ya know?..
I will keep whispering to them on his behalf and for you, Sheil, and the family members..
Miss ya out here Hon but totally understand..
Hope you both get to enjoy some quiet reflection time together during your vacation time and your Holiday time...
The New job/business sounds so great!..Good for you!...

 C  >^. A .

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Thu, 12-23-2004 - 1:44am
Laurie, I am glad Shelia's dad is feeling better. I am happy for you about the job opportunity too! I missed seeing you here, and hope you all have a wonderful holiday.
Love and hugs, Sandra

Sandr

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Thu, 12-23-2004 - 2:42am

Flip, Laurie, what a rollercoaster ride for you all, huh?


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Thu, 12-23-2004 - 7:21am

Hi Laurie!


Thanks for the update and Im soo glad to hear about Sheila's Dad.

*hugs ~ Caly

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Thu, 12-23-2004 - 7:41pm

{{{{{{{{{{Laurie}}}}}}}}}}


Thanks for sharing that. I'm so glad that Sheila's dad is doing better.


About the jobs, Congratulations! You are talented and people notice that. You should be excited!


rj

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Fri, 12-24-2004 - 1:37am

< Geez sometimes I feel like a ninny compared to people out here with their knowledge and positions..>

Lee, I certainly hope you never say that again or believe it!!
You touch people's hearts every day.
Many of us have had cleaning jobs at one time or another. Sheila and I have both cleaned offices at one time or another.
Also doing stand up full time I have had to take what ever jobs I could get to help supplement my income. Sometimes I take weird jobs just for the fun of it. Especially if they pay weekly or daily just so I can make some fast cash.
The dream jobs are hard to get and sometimes you just have to take what you can get to pay the bills and there is no shame in that.
I still highly recommend furniture sales. It is based on commision but it practically sells itself and the income is awesome. You have to try very hard not to make at least $40,000 a year. It is really a fun business. They train you too while being paid.
I will now hop off my soap box.
Thank you for your kind words.
Please have a bit of a happy holiday.
Miss you.
Hugs,

Laurie

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Fri, 12-24-2004 - 1:41am
Thank you Sandralea.
I hope all is well with you and you knew family.
Did you ever get your Christmas lights in full operation?
Say hi to Jen and hugs to you all,
Laurie

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Fri, 12-24-2004 - 1:47am
Hi Loubiedoo,
Nice to hear from you. And thank you.
A roller coaster ride for sure.
Tonight they had to give her dad 2 units of blood. He squeezed my hand so tight and told me I was very pretty and that he hopes he is not to far gone. I just love him so much he has been so sweet to me and so has Sheila's Mom and brothers and sisters. (There are six altogether).
Please tell nony hello and I hope all is well with the 2 of you.
Hugs,
Laurie

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Fri, 12-24-2004 - 1:50am
Caly,
Thanks for the well wishes. It is so refreshing to hear from you as usual.
Hugs to you and ting.
That count down ticker is getting shorter!
Laurie

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Fri, 12-24-2004 - 1:52am
Thanks again rj. I would say excited is putting it mildly.
Hugs,
Laurie

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